Single White Female 42

Another holiday season

2010-12-05T14:27:00.000-08:00

Yes I know I haven't blogged all that much this year. 2010 hasn't been kind to me on many levels, and, I'll be glad to see it go. I hope 2011 holds much better times for me in all areas of my life. Maybe I should just go back to my own version of Mr Big, and, take it from there.

It's funny, I watched "Sex and the City" last night - the movie (the first one), and, my own Mr. Big and I are very much like Carrie and Big... Even the on again, off again thing for the past ten years. Alas, it is me who has the commitment issues. (And, I'm not thrilled that he has baggage... Never have been thrilled with that part since I'm always being put in last place. And, I do mean always.) And, this has made me extremely gun shy about dating any guy who has kids at at this point - even if the "kids" are now college age.

I'd love to find a guy who is 45 - 50 (since I'm now actually 44, I just kept the title of SWF42 because that is when I started writing this saga)... Anyhow, I'd like to find a guy who is 45 to 50 who doesn't have any kids - and I know you're out there - who loves to travel and likes the finer things in life and can afford to do them with me.

Somehow, I do believe my Mr. Big is planning on making yet another come-back into my life. Once again, the flowers, the dinner invitations, and, everything that he can do to romance me have once again started, but, I'm older and wiser - and I'm not going to fall for it so readily this time. I have to see that I get some type of priority once in a while and for once let work, his kids, his mother and his ex-wife take a back seat to me. If he would do that just once... Then and only then might I start taking him seriously again.

In the meantime, any other takers out there? Email me... I'll even give you a hint, somewhere on this website you'll find my email....

Checking in

2010-11-11T11:39:00.000-08:00

Yes I know it's been forever since I posted. I've had lots going on in my personal life, and, it hasn't been the best. Everything from an ailing Father to dealing with an ongoing problem with a tooth - the dentist finally decided the best solution is to yank it. Gee, lucky me.

I'll be back to posting regularly soon... I hope.

Over size 14? Wait a minute - I'll give you the tablecloth from my dining room table - chances are it will fit better than what's out there to buy!

2010-09-16T12:02:00.000-07:00

Today I had one of the most disheartening experiences of my life. I took a friend shopping for a rather special event and it ended up with her in near hysterical tears. No it was nothing I said or did. No the saleswoman wasn't rude. No there were no ill words between her and husband or her and her children. The reason you ask? The clothes themselves.

My friend is a beautiful woman who just happens to be overweight. No I don't mean overweight by fashion world status - anyone above a size 4 is considered to be an elephant by the fashion world scale. But, truly over weight - a size 24 - for any man reading this - this roughly translates into XXL in your world.

I know some designers read this blog and so I will put the challenge directly to you...
Any designer, even the bad ones, can make a size 2 and 5'10 woman look great. As often quoted saying among the fashion industry "models are nothing more than mere hangers" - and to a very large part this true. My challenge is for designers to make clothing that flatters real women - ones who aren't size 2 or even size 16 and ones without perfect legs up to their necks and standing 5'9.

I can't remember who it was off hand but the best fashion designer cop-out of why that particular designer didn't make clothing over size 12 or 14 was because she (I'm 99% sure it was a she) said being "larger was unhealthy and she didn't want to be part of it."

I say that is pure bull!!

Any designer - who actually knows how to design - should be able to make flattering clothes for ANY sized woman. And, not just these God awful frumpy clothes that even though are brand new in stores (such as Saks Fifth Avenue and Bergdorf Goodman) with tags - look like something that was grabbed out of Grandma's closet without regard to garments being stylish, fashionable and God-forbid - flattering for a fuller figured woman.

And so with that I must give a standing ovation to Marc Jacobs - the first designer to realize there is an entirely overlooked market of women who are size 14 and over - who are fashion conscious and have the money to make purchases for designer items - if they could just be found! Unfortunately, these plans are still "in the works" and we might not have these items available until 2011, but, at least someone is waking up!

Now how about the rest of you following or should we just look forward to more Moos Moos and Toga-type dresses from you in 2011? If that's the case, I'll give my friend the tablecloth from my dining room table - chances are it will fit better and flatter more than the crap you are presently pushing down the plus sized woman's throat.

Posh says "no" to size zero and other fashion week updates

2010-09-11T14:39:00.000-07:00

"Posh" aka Victoria Beckham has banned super skinny size zero models from her runway show. Whether it was a spur of the moment decision or something that has been planned for a while - Posh has taken the (brave) stand that size zero is too thin for almost all adult women and has turned away no less than 12 models that were size zero from appearing in her Fashion Week runway show. I say "Bravo!" and "Well done Posh!"

Jessica Simpson was the guest judge for the season finale of Project Runway. No leaks from this writer who is the winner of season 8 - you'll just have to keep watching to find out!

Friday night's "Fashion's Night Out" was a blur of stars, models, designers and event attendees. Unlike past Fashion's Night Out events the sidewalks seems jammed with on-lookers. I'm not sure I get it - tickets were made public so why people had to cram-jam the sidewalks to catch a glimpse of the rich and famous is a bit beyond me...

Stay tuned for more Fashion Week updates

Another Fall

2010-09-07T11:19:00.000-07:00

I've been trying to be good and work today, but, I'm finding it hard to kick into gear after the long weekend. It's a bit too warm and my mind is wandering a little too off the beaten path to be productive, so, I'm allowing myself a rare "goof-off" day and hopefully the motivation will return to work later this evening or first thing in the morning. I've found that - at least for me - when I am experiencing one of these days, it means my mind is in overdrive and I need to just chill and let things fall into place. I have lots on my plate this Fall including Fashion's Night Out on Friday night.

I also have a very special friend coming to visit at the end of October, and, I'm trying to figure out a great weekend for us. I want enough to do without running ourselves ragged and not having time to talk about things and events that have transpired this year.

Yes, per usual, my Fall social schedule is heavy, and, as always it is self-imposed. I keep myself busy because I find the Fall a bit depressing - like the end of things. Another year has passed - my New Year's resolutions and things to do list is only about half done (par for the course) and I face another birthday in November.

This year will be tougher than some recent past years. No, I don't have a milestone birthday or anything like that taking place, but, I did have a friend betray me in every possible sense. I saw it coming from a mile away and he certainly wasn't the guy I was going to marry or have any type of long term relationship other than friend with - but - it was still a blow to find out he was the cause of my of personal troubles this past year. I'm am still struggling whether or not I want to press legal charges against him - that's how serious this was - but, that is why this Fall will be harder than past Falls in recent years.

So, with that I am going to head outside and enjoy the weather, and, with any luck, I will kick into gear and get working this evening...

Pardon me - I have one anger feline waiting for me

2010-09-02T15:18:00.000-07:00

Yes, I've been bad - the last time I blogged was back in July and here it is September 2, 2010. Sorry things in my life have been in turmoil - I've been the victim of ID theft and getting my life back in order has been nothing short of a nightmare.

Anyhow, since I'm getting back to normal or as normal as one can get after having their life invaded and stolen from them... Here is what I found absolutely interesting today...

I signed into my Twitter account for the first time in God knows when and it turns out I have nearly 300 followers. Strangely enough most are women, well, I guess it isn't so strange, after all - when you hit a certain age there are always more single women than single men - even with the high divorce rate.

Anyhow, if you'd like to follow my Tweets - be forewarned, I don't use Twitter often, my link is: http://twitter.com/swf42

So if you have been kind enough to follow me - you will now find that I am following you. Thank you for your loyalty and readership.

Of course I have other things happening in my life but for now this is all I will blog. I'm actually on my way out to the food store. I am out of cat food and I'm dealing with one very impatient feline at the moment!

Stay tuned... I'll be blogging more as Fall and Winter set in

Project Runway Season 8: And Sew It Begins - tonight at 9pm Eastern on Lifetime

2010-07-29T07:00:00.000-07:00

I probably shouldn't have to tell you this but tonight begins Season 8 for Project Runway. It looks like it might be a fun and promising season, and, if you click the following link you can get a sneak peak at this season's designers (a rather large group this time): http://www.mylifetime.com/shows/project-runway

And if you've been living under a rock, Fashion Week will be September 9 - 16 this Fall. If you don't have your press pass by now, you're out of luck - just remember to register earlier next time.

But, I digress and return to Project Runway. What is it about this show that makes it so much fun? Is it trying to predict the winner based on the first night's competition? Watching the designers each week and slowly learning their ideas and personalities like last year's very memorable Anthony Williams? You can see Anthony's current collection on his website at: http://www.anthonylwilliams.com

Did you have Seth Aaron Henderson selected as the Project Runway season 7 winner? Seth Aaron also has a website where you can see his collection (which is outstanding): http://sethaarondesigns.com/home.html

I don't know about you but I'll be in front of the television watching the fun tonight!

World Cruise 2012 - I'm booked!

2010-07-25T12:57:00.000-07:00

Well here I am - officially booked on the full 2012 World Cruise on Queen Mary 2 which includes the full circumnavigation of Australia. Funny how a two or three people didn't believe I was actually going but hey it's their loss. I invited people who turned me down and I'm not even going to give them a second thought beyond this short blog entry.

There is too much to look forward to than to dwell on people who didn't have enough trust in me to believe this would actually come to pass. I've been meeting fellow shipmates via Facebook and anyone booked on the 2012 World Cruise or any of it's segments are invited to join the Facebook group: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=108081605886749

It is indeed an exciting itinerary, if I didn't release before now, here it is:

January, 2012

Jan 10 Southampton, England Embark PM
11-12 W-TH Cruising the Atlantic Ocean
13 F Madeira (Funchal), Portugal Full Day
14 S Santa Cruz de Tenerife, Canary Islands Full Day
15-21 SU-S Cruising the Atlantic Ocean (cross the Equator)
22 SU Swakopmund (Walvis Bay), Namibia Maiden Call Full Day
23 M Cruising the Atlantic Ocean
24 T Cape Town, South Africa (Overnight) Full Day & Overnight
25 W Cape Town, South Africa (Overnight) Full Day & Overnight
26 TH Cape Town, South Africa Full Day
27 F Cruising the Indian Ocean
28 S Durban, South Africa Full Day
29-31 SU-T Cruising the Indian Ocean

February, 2012

Feb 1 W Port Louis, Mauritius Full Day
2-7 TH-T Cruising the Indian Ocean
8 W Perth (Fremantle), Australia Full Day
9-10 TH-F Cruising the Great Australian Bight
11 S Adelaide, Australia Full Day
12-13 SU-M Cruising the Great Australian Basin & Tasman Sea
14 T Sydney, Australia Full Day & Evening
15 W Cruising the Tasman Sea
16 TH Brisbane, Australia Full Day
17 F Cruising the Coral Sea
18 S Whitsunday Islands (for the Great Barrier
Reef), Australia
Full Day
19 SU Cairns (Yorkeys Knob), Australia Full Day
20-21 M-T Cruising the Arafura Sea
22 W Darwin, Australia Maiden Call Full Day
23 TH Cruising the Timor Sea
24 F Bali (Padang Bay), Indonesia Full Day
25-27 S-M Cruising the Indian Ocean
28 T Perth (Fremantle), Australia Full Day
Feb 29 W Cruising the Indian Ocean

March, 2012
Mar 1-2 TH-F Cruising the Great Australian Basin
3 S Adelaide, Australia Full Day
4 SU Cruising the Great Australian Basin
5 M Melbourne, Australia Full Day
6 T Cruising the Tasman Sea
7 W Sydney, Australia Full Day & Evening
8-11 TH-SU Cruising the Tasman Sea & the Solomon Sea
12 M Rabaul, Papua New Guinea Full Day
13-14 T-W Cruising the Pacific Ocean
15 TH Saipan, Northern Mariana Islands Full Day
16-17 F-S Cruising the Pacific Ocean
18 SU Osaka, Japan (for Kyoto) Full Day & Evening
19 M Cruising the Pacific Ocean
20 T Hiroshima, Japan Maiden Call Full Day
21 W Nagasaki, Japan Full Day
22 TH Cruising the East China Sea
23 F Shanghai, China Full Day
24 S Cruising the East China Sea
25 SU Hong Kong (Overnight) Half Day - Afternoon &
Overnight
26 M Hong Kong Full Day & Evening
27-28 T-W Cruising the South China Sea
29 TH Ho Chi Minh City (Phu My), Vietnam Full Day
30 F Cruising Gulf of Thailand
31 S Bangkok (Laem Chabang), Thailand Full Day

April, 2012
Apr 1 SU Cruising South China Sea
2 M Singapore Full Day
3 T Cruising the Andaman Sea
4 W Phuket, Thailand Full Day
5-6 TH-F Cruising the Bay of Bengal
7 S Cochin, India Full Day
8-10 SU-T Cruising the Arabian Sea
11 W Dubai, United Arab Emirates (Overnight) Full Day & Overnight
12 TH Dubai, United Arab Emirates Full Day
13 F Muscat (Mina Qaboos), Oman Full Day
14-17 S-T Cruising the Arabian Sea & Red Sea
18 W Sokhna, Egypt (for Cairo & Giza) Full Day
19 TH Transit the Suez Canal
20 F Cruising the Mediterranean Sea
21 S Athens (Piraeus), Greece Full Day
22-24 SU-T Cruising the Mediterranean Sea
25 W Lisbon, Portugal Full Day
26 TH Cruising the Atlantic Ocean
27 F Southampton, England Disembark AM

SINGLE OCCUPANCY PRICING

Single Occupancy

●The following is based upon single occupancy (one person in one cabin)

●Pricing includes port charges and taxes

●Pricing includes insurance as indicated

With Insurance from Cunard

Category	Deposit Required	On-Board Credit	Total** including deposit
D5 Inside	$5,485.00	$650	$40,672.11
C2 Outside	$6,607.00	$650	$48,825.65
B2 In- Hull Balcony	$7,480.00	$1,050	$55,167.78
B1 In- Hull Balcony	$7,729.00	$1,050	$56,979.19
A4 - Balcony	$7.729.00	$1,050	$56,979.19
A2 - Balcony	$8,802.00	$1,050	$64,770.89
P2 - Princess Grill	$15,674.00	$1,300	$114,882.48
Q6 - Queen's Grill	$21,374.00	$1,800	$157,818.68

Without Insurance from Cunard

Category	Deposit Required	On-Board Credit	Total** including deposit
D5 Inside	$5,485.00	$650	$37,384.83
C2 Outside	$6,607.00	$650	$44,865.83
B2 In- Hull Balcony	$7,480.00	$1,050	$50,684.83
B1 In- Hull Balcony	$7,729.00	$1,050	$52,346.83
A4 - Balcony	$7.729.00	$1,050	$52,346.83
A2 - Balcony	$8,802.00	$1,050	$59,495.83
P2 - Princess Grill	$15,674.00	$1,300	$105308.83
Q6 - Queen's Grill	$21,374.00	$1,800	$143308.83

DOUBLE OCCUPANCY PRICING

Double Occupancy

●The following is based upon double occupancy (two people in one cabin)

●Pricing includes port charges and taxes

●Pricing includes insurance as indicated

With Insurance from Cunard

Category	Deposit Required	On-Board Credit	Total** including deposit
D5 Inside	$6,268.00	$1,150.00	$47,183.08
C2 Outside	$7,551.00	$1,150.00	$56,502.96
B2 In- Hull Balcony	$8,548.00	$1,800.00	$63,750.74
B1 In- Hull Balcony	$8,833.00	$1,800.00	$65,820.62
A4 - Balcony	$8,833.00	$1,800.00	$65,820.62
A2 - Balcony	$10,059.00	$1,800.00	$74,726.50
P2 - Princess Grill	$15,673.00	$2,300.00	$115,520.34
Q6 - Queen's Grill	$21,373.00	$3,300.00	$156,937.02

Without Insurance from Cunard

Category	Deposit Required	On-Board Credit	Total** including deposit
D5 Inside	$6,268.00	$1,150.00	$43,426.30
C2 Outside	$7,551.00	$1,150.00	$51,977.42
B2 In- Hull Balcony	$8,548.00	$1,800.00	$58,627.38
B1 In- Hull Balcony	$8,833.00	$1,800.00	$60,526.52
A4 - Balcony	$8,833.00	$1,800.00	$60,526.52
A2 - Balcony	$10,059.00	$1,800.00	$68,697.80
P2 - Princess Grill	$15,673.00	$2,300.00	$106,126.78
Q6 - Queen's Grill	$21,373.00	$3,300.00	$144,127.22

I simply cannot wait!

QM2 World Cruise 2012 Booking Instructions

2010-06-29T09:44:00.000-07:00

Hello Fellow World Cruisers!

World Cruise 2012 opens in just a few short weeks and at this time I'd like to go over booking instructions and procedures with you.

We are accepting BOOKING FORMS as of TODAY Tuesday, June 29, 2010. You will be booked in order received beginning July 15, 2010.

We are only have the following sailings available with GROUP pricing and amenities

Full World Cruise on QM2 Southampton to Southampton

Full World Cruise with EASTBOUND Transatlantic on January 3, 2012

Full World Cruise with WESTBOUND Transatlantic on April 27, 2012

Full World Cruise with BOTH Transatlantic (Offering a full world cruise New York to New York)

Circumnavigation of Australia (28 Days in Australia)

As you may realize, we've been promoting this cruise for over a year and our opt-in list is massive. In order to book everyone in a timely fashion, we have developed a booking form and credit card authorization form. This is the only way we are accepting bookings due to the sheer size of the interest this sailing has generated.

Booking forms will be processed in order received. If you are booking the Australia segment please get a booking form sent to us by 5pm Eastern Time on July 14, 2010. The Australia segment is expected to sell out rapidly!

Booking Procedure

The booking procedure is simple. Fill out the booking form located on our website. Here is the link:

Booking Form:
http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com/3/custom_form.htm

On July 15, 2010 we will pull group space based on booking forms received by July 14, 2010, and, we will begin booking reservations in order received.

Once you are booked, we will forward BOTH a booking number AND a confirmation directly from Cunard. You will then have 72 hours from receipt of your booking number to send us a credit card authorization form. This form will be sent to you along with your booking confirmation.

Your credit card or debit card will be charged DIRECTLY BY CUNARD. You will not see any additional charges from us - ever.

Group Amenities

EASTBOUND TRANSATLANTIC
January 3, 2012
SPECIAL AMENITIES (included at no additional charge to you)

* Complimentary Hotel and Dining Charges per person
* "Welcome Aboard" door decorations (balloons and streamers)
* Cunard Travel Mugs (two per stateroom)

FULL WORLD CRUISE 2012
January 10 - April 27, 2012
SPECIAL AMENITIES (included at no additional charge to you)

Full World Voyage Benefits from Cunard:

· On-Board Credit of up to $3,000 per stateroom (expires 28 February 2011)
· Savings of up to 10% off Early Booking Fares (expires 28 February 2011)
· Complimentary hotel and dining charges
· Gala World Voyage Dinner
· Special commemorative gifts
· Welcome Aboard Reception & Senior Officer Dinner
· World Voyage cocktail parties
· Services of a World Voyage Concierge

Special Note: Additional 5% savings on Bonus Early Booking Fares for World Club Members applies to reservations made by 28 February 2011.

Office EXCLUSIVE Amenities

· A signed copy of the World Cruise book being written by blogger "Around the World 2012" The book will contain the history of world cruises, the 2012 QM2 itinerary, and, tons of photos from the cruise. It promises to be a great keepsake. It will be sent to you in late 2012.
· ADDITIONAL On-Board Credit $75 USD per person (Inside & Outside) $150 maximum per cabin; $150 USD per person (Balcony & Grill) $300 maximum per cabin
· Welcome Aboard" door decorations (balloons and streamers)
· Special in-cabin gift upon boarding
· Special in-cabin gift on Valentine's Day (February 14, 2012)

WESTBOUND TRANSATLANTIC AND AUSTRALIA SEGMENT AMENITIES WILL BE ANNOUNCED ON JULY 15, 2010

Contact Information and About Us

Our Fax Number is:
800-519-8834

Our Email:
JackieThresten@yahoo.com

Please refrain from calling the office during the July 15 - July 18 booking period. Phone calls only slow us down and we need to get everyone booked ASAP. If you need to speak with us, leave a voice-mail and we will get back to you.

About Us

Jackie Thresten began her career as a flight attendant after graduating college with a BS in English. After a number of years with the airlines, marriage and family came along and, Jackie became a professional travel agent. She is currently a luxury travel agent and holds an MCC certificate from CLIA and is also a graduate of the Travel Institute has earned the title of Certified Travel Counselor (CTC).

Jackie Thresten is a home-based travel agent and independent contractor in association with Vacation Central, 560 Sylvan Ave , Englewood Cliffs, NJ, 07632 , USA, Phone: 201-567-8500, Fax: 201-490-1721

IATAN/ARC/CLIA: 31823643

CST # 2057620 FLA. Seller of Travel-Reg. No. ST36832 NV Seller of Travel-Reg. No. 2004-0111.

Please note I will be unavailable from Wednesday June 30, 2010 through Wednesday, July 7, 2010. However, booking forms will still be forwarded to my email account and again you will be booked in order received.

Sincerely,

Jackie Thresten
World Cruise 2012

QM2 World Cruise 2012 Itinerary and Lead-In Pricing

2010-06-18T10:27:00.000-07:00

FULL WORLD CRUISE

January, 2012

Jan 10 Southampton, England Embark PM
11-12 W-TH Cruising the Atlantic Ocean
13 F Madeira (Funchal), Portugal Full Day
14 S Santa Cruz de Tenerife, Canary Islands Full Day
15-21 SU-S Cruising the Atlantic Ocean (cross the Equator)
22 SU Swakopmund (Walvis Bay), Namibia Maiden Call Full Day
23 M Cruising the Atlantic Ocean
24 T Cape Town, South Africa (Overnight) Full Day & Overnight
25 W Cape Town, South Africa (Overnight) Full Day & Overnight
26 TH Cape Town, South Africa Full Day
27 F Cruising the Indian Ocean
28 S Durban, South Africa Full Day
29-31 SU-T Cruising the Indian Ocean

February, 2012

Feb 1 W Port Louis, Mauritius Full Day
2-7 TH-T Cruising the Indian Ocean
8 W Perth (Fremantle), Australia Full Day
9-10 TH-F Cruising the Great Australian Bight
11 S Adelaide, Australia Full Day
12-13 SU-M Cruising the Great Australian Basin & Tasman Sea
14 T Sydney, Australia Full Day & Evening
15 W Cruising the Tasman Sea
16 TH Brisbane, Australia Full Day
17 F Cruising the Coral Sea
18 S Whitsunday Islands (for the Great Barrier
Reef), Australia
Full Day
19 SU Cairns (Yorkeys Knob), Australia Full Day
20-21 M-T Cruising the Arafura Sea
22 W Darwin, Australia Maiden Call Full Day
23 TH Cruising the Timor Sea
24 F Bali (Padang Bay), Indonesia Full Day
25-27 S-M Cruising the Indian Ocean
28 T Perth (Fremantle), Australia Full Day
Feb 29 W Cruising the Indian Ocean

March, 2012
Mar 1-2 TH-F Cruising the Great Australian Basin
3 S Adelaide, Australia Full Day
4 SU Cruising the Great Australian Basin
5 M Melbourne, Australia Full Day
6 T Cruising the Tasman Sea
7 W Sydney, Australia Full Day & Evening
8-11 TH-SU Cruising the Tasman Sea & the Solomon Sea
12 M Rabaul, Papua New Guinea Full Day
13-14 T-W Cruising the Pacific Ocean
15 TH Saipan, Northern Mariana Islands Full Day
16-17 F-S Cruising the Pacific Ocean
18 SU Osaka, Japan (for Kyoto) Full Day & Evening
19 M Cruising the Pacific Ocean
20 T Hiroshima, Japan Maiden Call Full Day
21 W Nagasaki, Japan Full Day
22 TH Cruising the East China Sea
23 F Shanghai, China Full Day
24 S Cruising the East China Sea
25 SU Hong Kong (Overnight) Half Day - Afternoon &
Overnight
26 M Hong Kong Full Day & Evening
27-28 T-W Cruising the South China Sea
29 TH Ho Chi Minh City (Phu My), Vietnam Full Day
30 F Cruising Gulf of Thailand
31 S Bangkok (Laem Chabang), Thailand Full Day

April, 2012
Apr 1 SU Cruising South China Sea
2 M Singapore Full Day
3 T Cruising the Andaman Sea
4 W Phuket, Thailand Full Day
5-6 TH-F Cruising the Bay of Bengal
7 S Cochin, India Full Day
8-10 SU-T Cruising the Arabian Sea
11 W Dubai, United Arab Emirates (Overnight) Full Day & Overnight
12 TH Dubai, United Arab Emirates Full Day
13 F Muscat (Mina Qaboos), Oman Full Day
14-17 S-T Cruising the Arabian Sea & Red Sea
18 W Sokhna, Egypt (for Cairo & Giza) Full Day
19 TH Transit the Suez Canal
20 F Cruising the Mediterranean Sea
21 S Athens (Piraeus), Greece Full Day
22-24 SU-T Cruising the Mediterranean Sea
25 W Lisbon, Portugal Full Day
26 TH Cruising the Atlantic Ocean
27 F Southampton, England Disembark AM

Lead-In Pricing
D5 Inside Cabin $20,895
C2 Outside Cabin $25,170
B3 Balcony $27,545
D4 Balcony $29,335
P2 Princess Grill $52,245
Q6 Queen's Grill $71,245

3rd and 4th from $10,497

**Third and Fourth guest fares shown are applicable to categories D1-D8. Rates for other categories will vary.
Government Fees & Taxes are based on itinerary, are subject to change without prior notice and may vary for residents of Canada, Mexico and Puerto Rico

Amenities from Cunard

Up to 10% off Early Booking Fares*
(expires 28 February 2011)
On-Board Credit of up to $3,000 per stateroom^
(expires 28 February 2011)
Up to 5% Group Discounts – equivalent to up to $1,875
per person in Balcony staterooms and up to $4,250
per person in Grills*
8 Group Amenity Points
Double Amenity point values for Balcony and Grill bookings

QM2 World Cruise 2012 unconfirmed announcement date is in July, 2010

2010-06-07T05:35:00.000-07:00

It's been a busy weekend, and, I just received unconfirmed information that Cunard will be releasing full itineraries and information for the 2012 World Cruise of QM2 on July 16, 2010. Of course, right now this is second hand information but circle that date and stay tuned. The minute I get confirmation this information is true, I will announce it again on here.

18 Months to World Cruise 2012

2010-05-31T06:22:00.000-07:00

Reality is just beginning to set in... In approximately 18 months time I will begin the journey of a lifetime, a world cruise. I've received a variety of reactions from friends, family and people I meet about this trip, but, I think my own reaction has been the biggest surprise. I haven't allowed myself to really enjoy the anticipation - I've been so busy dealing with other things - from finally eliminating a truly odd duck from my life to trying to figure out my adventures in real estate... I haven't allowed myself to enjoy what lies ahead of me.

I'm actually going to get to see a good chunk of the world, and, visit places I could only hope to visit without the aid of this world cruise. Oh sure, I still don't have a clue about the itinerary (other than QM2 is confirmed for 28 days in Australia in 2012) and I'm sure there will be a few ports here and there I wouldn't care to see in the first place, but, really - this is something most people only dream about experiencing and here I am getting to go and I'm still in my 40s.

I realized my good fortune this morning when I was awaken by my best friend that the clock is ticking and that we should use the time to go shopping. Ok, so, it's an excuse to go shopping, but, the reality of it is that I have to have clothing for a variety of climates and everything from ballgowns and accessories to go with it to jeans and shorts... 3 months worth!

Why do I have a feeling I'm about to get on a first name basis with the entire staff of both Saks and Bergdorf's?? Damn the tourists, it's off to Fifth Avenue and a serious shop-a-thon today!

Meet me on Meetup

2010-05-30T13:49:00.000-07:00

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Luxury and Upscale Cruises Group for Singles NYC

I was approached about joining this Meetup club and what the heck? I'm single and I love luxury and upscale cruises. Sounds like a perfect match! Why not join the group with me? Here's the link: http://www.meetup.com/Luxury-and-Upscale-Cruises-Group/

Fashion's Night Out is September 10 2010

2010-05-29T05:33:00.000-07:00

Ok girls (and the occasional guy) circle your calendars for the evening of Friday, September 10, 2010 from 6pm to 11pm. It's Fashion's Night Out.

What is it?
Fashion's Night Out is the kick-off event for New York Fashion Week which is co-produced by Vogue and SPEC Entertainment. According to Vogue this year will boast 200 top models showing trends for Fall 2010.

The 2009 FNO (Fashion's Night Out) had more than 800 participating stores across the five boroughs of New York and brought out thousands of shoppers who supported the fashion and retail industries.

The 2010 event is expected to be bigger and better than 2009, and, you should register now to receive information first. If you are a retailer who wants to participate click the following link: http://www.fashionsnightout.com/register/ and if you are a consumer/fan/shopper then please click this link: http://www.fashionsnightout.com/ and scroll down to the bottom of the page and click where is it says "Attention Shoppers". A pop-up box will allow you to register.

A percentage of the sales from the Fashion’s Night Out T-shirt will be donated to the NYC AIDS Fund. Be sure to check back in August for retailer information and locations.

I'll be there and I hope you'll join me.

Photo provided by nitrolicious.com

Positano anyone?

2010-05-26T10:55:00.001-07:00

Funny, I was just discussing the Amalfi coast with a friend yesterday, and, today I find out that I am heading to Positano sometime next year. And, while it's a tough, I'll be staying at Le Sirenuse.

I just have to figure out how to extend the stay! Who wants to go with me? (As if I already don't know)

Now, as I was just discussing with a friend, if you want to see a fun movie that has a lot of great Italian scenery, do yourself a favor and rent "Only You" with Marisa Tomei and Robert Downey Jr. This movie didn't win any awards and most critics tore it to shreds, but, it's a nice movie - a fun movie on many levels. Not a lot of laughs but a light hearted film. Here's a trailer if you're at all interested: http://www.videodetective.com/titledetails.aspx?PublishedID=5346

Now that you've seen the trailer, who wants to go to Italy with me in 2011?

Speculation: Cunard Royal Rendezvous 2012

2010-05-25T12:53:00.000-07:00

I could be wrong, but, I'm beginning to wonder if Cunard is planning a Royal Rendezvous in Fort Lauderdale on January 19, 2012. Here is how I am jumping to this thought:

1. QM2 is making an Eastbound Transatlantic crossing on January 3, 2012. If they schedule her for a turnaround for a Westbound Transatlantic and the start of World Cruise 2012 on January 10, 2012, she would be back in New York on January 17, 2012. Add on two days to get to Fort Lauderdale to bring the date up to January 19, 2012.

2. QV is going to be in Fort Lauderdale on January 19, 2012 for an 11 night Caribbean sailing. This is fact, not speculation.

3. QE's early January sailing in 2012 for 5 nights has now been removed from the reservations system. One can assume (and assume big) that it is because Cunard will use QE for a World Cruise in 2012 since nothing is in the reservation system beyond QE's holiday sailing which returns to Southampton on January 5, 2010 giving ample time to get to Fort Lauderdale on January 19, 2012.

Of course this is my own personal speculation based upon facts I have researched the past few hours. Personally, I am hoping for a Royal Rendezvous in Fort Lauderdale and I do believe it would be extremely festive and fun. However, with a 2011 Royal Rendezvous in place for January 13, 2011 my 2012 theory seems less likely, but, all we can do is wait and see...

Bermuda on my mind

2010-05-24T12:27:00.001-07:00

I know I've been bad about posting in here and I'm trying to do my best to keep up, and, so today I'll simply state that I have Bermuda on my mind. I don't know what it is about Bermuda, but, I happen to love it. I've checked and double checked the strict rules for foreigners buying property in Bermuda, and, unfortunately, I don't think I will able to afford to buy there - ever. It won't keep me from visiting - I do love it so.

I see Elbow Beach just got a major face lift - it's such a nice resort! Of course, if you're a golfer, Southampton Princess is good too.

Yes... I foresee a trip to Bermuda for me in the not so distant future...

World Cruise 2012 Cunard QM2 - Who's with me?

2010-05-23T08:26:00.000-07:00

I know I haven't really written in this blog in a while - sure I've cut and pasted information, but, as far as an actual entry, it's been a while.

I have started a journal on TravelPod for World Cruise 2012 in case anyone is interested. And, I hope I find a few people truly interested in joining me on this journey. I have one faithful friend who is going to attempt to travel with me but given his line of work, it might be tough for him to take off 3 months - hopefully he can join me for part of the voyage if not the full voyage.

I'm waiting for another friend to respond to me, he kind of drifts in and out of my life. I've have traveled with him before and he does make an excellent travel companion. However, I have not received any commitment at this point, but, it's still early in the game.

As I wrote in my Travelpod entry for today, I'm currently trying to second guess Cunard. I do know and have had it confirmed that QM2's last voyage currently in the reservations system is for a Transatlantic crossing on January 3, 2012. Now given other information such as the Royal Circumnavigation of Australia which begin February 8, 2012, logic dictates that the itinerary will be similar to that of the QM2 2011 World Cruise.

Now I just have to wait and see if I'm right!

Those interested in joining me on World Cruise 2012 should visit the following websites:

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=108081605886749

Opt-in Email List: http://visitor.constantcontact.com/manage/optin/ea?v=001pj6W7ke0zfty3BLwOyFm-Q%3D%3D

2010-05-19T12:53:00.001-07:00

World Cruise 2012: Updates Volume 3

Hello!

You are receiving this email update because you or someone you know added your email address to our opt-in list. If you no longer wish to receive updates you may remove your name from our list by using the unsubscribe link below.

What's new?
We are expecting pricing and itineraries in mid-year 2010 - which isn't far away!

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28 Days in Australia!

The largest ship ever to visit Australia, Queen Mary 2 will call at eight Australian ports during her time Down Under including Sydney, Fremantle, Adelaide and the Whitsundays, as well as maiden visits to Cairns (Yorkey's Knob), Darwin, Melbourne and Brisbane. Her circumnavigation will also include a call at Bali.

There will be three circumnavigation options - a 22-night voyage departing Sydney on 14 February 2012, a 20-night voyage departing Fremantle on 8 February 2012 and a 21-night voyage departing Adelaide on 11 February 2012.

Visit our photos of these ports of call at:
http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com/photoalbum/6-6.htm

In addition to the full world cruise. We will be offering group pricing and amenities for this exciting Australia segment of World Cruise 2012 aboard Queen Mary 2.

Pricing is expected to be available in mid-year 2010.
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Booking Form is now available!

For your convenience, a booking form as been added to the 2012 World Cruise website. This will help speed the booking process and will prove very handy for those living in time zones outside of the East coast of the United States.

Take a sneak peak at the booking form:
http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com/3/custom_form.htm

We respectfully ask that you use the Booking Form for the purpose of an actual booking. If you have questions please use the Contact Us form on the website: http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com/3/contactus.htm or email us at JackieThresten@yahoo.com
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Have your visited?

2012 QM2 World Cruise website:
http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com/

We are currently waiting for pricing and itinerary. In the meantime, please browse this website.

We're sure you'll agree it is one of the most - if not the most - comprehensive websites for this sailing on the Internet!

Don't forget to check out our photo albums and please feel free to join our message board (even if you don't book with us)
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Your travel agent

For those who have just signed up, I'd like to introduce myself, my name is Jackie Thresten, and, I will be your travel agent for World Cruise 2012. A website has been made for this group and you'll be able to everything from photos to requesting a price quote on it. I'm sure you find it very useful in the months to come! Please visit the website at: http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com/

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Your fellow cruiser and book author

As you may or may not know, I am forming this group for World Cruise 2012 in association with a blogger (who wishes to remain anonymous since this blogger will be writing a book on the World Cruise experience.) If you wish to get familiar with this blogger please visit: http://aroundtheworld2011.typepad.com/worldcruiser/

Everyone who books with me will receive a copy of World Cruisers book about World Cruising including 100s of photos from the 2012 World Cruise on Queen Mary 2. This is an office exclusive!!

2012 World Cruise Itinerary - Coming Soon!

We are currently waiting for pricing and itinerary. In the meantime, please browse this website.

We're sure you'll agree it is one of the most - if not the most - comprehensive websites for this sailing on the Internet!

Don't forget to check out our photo albums and please feel free to join our message board (even if you don't book with us)

2012 World Cruise Website

A website specifically for World Cruise 2012 aboard Queen Mary 2 has been made and designed especially for this group. On it you will find:

Photos of the ship and ports of call
Pricing and Amenities for this group
2012 Booking Incentives
Royal Balls Information
Quote Request Form and more

Please visit at:
http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com/

Deposits

As we begin gearing up for World Cruise 2012, questions are sure to arise for example what type of deposit requirements will be necessary. Keep in mind that I will be unable to give exact information until pricing comes out later this year, however, based on World Cruise 2011, deposits will be approximately:

* D5 Inside cabin $5515
* A4 Balcony cabin $8258
* P2 Princess Grill cabin $14,799

Deposits are based upon double occupancy (two people sharing one cabin)

Again, the prices above are just ball park figures, but, many find it helpful as they begin to chart-out their finances for the long voyage.

Q&A

Question: What is the purpose of forming a group for a World Cruise?

Answer: To help obtain the lowest possible price for everyone who is interested in being part of the group.
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Question: Does this mean we eat together and have activities together?

Answer: No, it isn't that type of group. This group is for pricing and amenities purposes only. You will not be forced into socializing, dining or any other "group" type activities.
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Question: Can I make payment arrangements with you?

Answer: Absolutely! A world cruise is very expensive, and, I can tailor payments to your special needs and requests. The only requirements are that you make the full deposit as determined by Cunard Cruise Lines and that you make your final payment by the deadline as determined by Cunard Cruise Lines
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Question: What type of amenities will you be offering?

Answer: As you may or may not know, a world cruise (usually) comes with a variety of amenities, especially aboard a Cunard World Cruise. In the past the following have been included by Cunard as amenities:

* On-board Credit of up to $2,000 per stateroom
* Savings of up to 10% off Early Booking Fares
* Complimentary Hotel & Dining Charges
* Up to $400 per person in Shore Excursion Credits for Grill guests
* Gala World Voyage Dinner
* Special Commemorative Gifts
* Welcome Aboard Reception & Senior Officer Dinner
* World Voyage Cocktail Parties
* Services of a World Voyage Concierge

And, I do believe these same amenities will be included in World Cruise 2012. In addition, I will be offering special amenities to this group as an office exclusive, and, more information will be provided later this year.

Join us on Facebook!

Booking World Cruise 2012 on Queen Mary 2? Join us on Facebook and meet your shipmates! Simply click the link to go to our page: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=108081605886749

I will update you as more information becomes available, and, I will do my best not to email you unnecessarily. The next email update will contain the pricing and itineraries we've all been waiting to receive.

I look forward to working with you and to help your World Cruise in 2012 a wonderful, exciting experience!

Warmest regards,
Jackie Thresten

World Cruise 2012 news

2010-05-16T09:46:00.001-07:00

Yes it's been a while since I've posted, I've been very busy working, but, I now have information for World Cruise 2012 I'd like to share.

For those who are sincerely interested in Queen Mary 2 World Cruise in 2012, I have received word from travel agent Jackie Thresten that Cunard plans to release information mid-year 2010. That means in the next several weeks, the information we've all been waiting for will finally be given to us.

If you haven't done so already, place your email address on the opt-in list. People on the opt-in list will receive information first. Travel agent Jackie Thresten has been working hard making a full and comprehensive website for the sailing and you can enter your email on the first page: http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com

Keep in mind that our travel agent Jackie Thresten is going to have group space for the full world cruise as well as the 28 day segment for Australia. If you are interested in either you should sign up on the opt-in email list. I will be on the full World Cruise in 2012 aboard Queen Mary 2.

Additionally, as a reminder, those that book the full world cruise or a segment of world cruise 2012 with Jackie Thresten will receive a signed copy of the World Cruise book when it comes out in late 2012. The book will feature the history of world cruises, a day by day travel journal of the 2012 voyage, and, hundreds of photos to help you remember the voyage!

Questions? Email travel agent Jackie Thresten at JackieThresten@yahoo.com

World Cruise 2012 Care to Join Me?

2010-04-23T10:13:00.000-07:00

Well it is confirmed, I am going on the full World Cruise on Queen Mary 2 in 2012. This cruise is featuring 28 days in Australia, and, I invite you to join me on this voyage! Book the full cruise or only a segment. For more information visit the website: http://www.qm2worldcruise2012.com/

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We are currently waiting for pricing and itinerary. In the meantime, please browse this website.

We're sure you'll agree it is one of the most - if not the most - comprehensive websites for this sailing on the Internet!

Don't forget to check out our photo albums and please feel free to join our message board (even if you don't book with us)

Want a quote as soon as pricing is available?
Fill out a quote form!
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Congratulations to Seth Aaron for winning Project Runway!

Meet SWF42 in person on Caribbean Princess

2010-04-09T05:36:00.000-07:00

If you've been curious about who has been writing this blog and would like to meet me in person, then pack your bags and be ready to go on a 7 night Caribbean cruise aboard Caribbean Princess departing on Sunday, February 20, 2011 and returning on Sunday, February 27, 2011. This seven night sailing departs from San Juan, Puerto Rico and ports of call include: St Thomas, Tortola, Antigua, St. Lucia and Barbados.

Deposits are just $100 per person through the end of April so book today!

For more information about this sailing please visit:
http://www.www.caribbeanprincessfebruary202012.com

Or join the Facebook group Caribbean Princess February 20, 2011
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=115275608489304&ref=mf

World Cruise 2012

2010-03-30T06:53:00.001-07:00

Essssh, I've been a bad girl, I haven't written in here since November. Sorry about that but my life has been turned upside down. I was suppose to go on a World Cruise in 2011, but, due to scheduling conflicts - make that MAJOR scheduling conflicts - I will be going in 2012.

Interested in going too? Here is what I can tell you so far:

Opt-in Email to receive information about World Cruise 2012: http://visitor.constantcontact.com/manage/optin/ea?v=001pj6W7ke0zfty3BLwOyFm-Q%3D%3D

Facebook Group for those thinking about going or who book:
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/group.php?gid=108081605886749

See you on Facebook!

Happy Halloween

2009-10-31T13:05:00.001-07:00

Well this weekend turned out a bit differently than I expected, I'm sitting in the Bryant Park Hotel right now waiting for a friend to arrive from out of town. This is an old friend whom I've traveled all around the world with from the pink sand beaches of Bermuda to "Old Town" Dubrovnik in Croatia. We're going to do a few fun things this evening including the Halloween Parade in the Village - provided the rain holds off and right now that doesn't look too promising. So I hopped online to see what movies are playing but kind of slim pickings...maybe Amelia but we shall see. Sometime the best thing to do is just wing it - something tells me we'll end up just going to dinner and talking until we're blue in the face. It's been over 3 years since we last saw each other.

And my friend just appeared so I am signing off and going to great him.

Oppps - haven't posted in a while

2009-10-28T15:30:00.000-07:00

There was personal drama, work - more work - the end of a friendship - more work. So that's where I've been the past few weeks. Fall is a hard time of year for me, very depressing. I find it sad to see the end of yet another year coming to a close, and, it does make me depressed. I often find myself thinking about the things I didn't get accomplished and the goals I failed to meet. I also think of lost friends and family who will no longer be celebrating the holidays with me. So, instead of allowing myself to wallow in the sadness for any length of time, I keep myself busy - super busy during the Fall so that's why I haven't had time to blog.

Fact of the matter is that it's 6:30 and I'm still at work and have been here since 7:30 am. And, I've been doing this for 6 days a week for the past few weeks and, it will not let up until after New Year's Day.

On the bright side of things, I've made a great new friend, and, if he's reading this - you know who you are and I look forward to cruising with you this summer (wink). And, addition to the cruise with my friend I have several other great trips lined up for 2010 including one I will reveal later in the year. I'm holding off because once it goes public I am sure it will book up fast and I am waiting for answers from family and friends before announcing what it is that is planned. All I will say is that involved travel, a well known chef and tv personality, and, it will be taking place in Europe.

Intrigued? Stay tuned!

Snow in October in NJ? Guess it's the season...

2009-10-15T14:50:00.000-07:00

Photo credit: Robert Sciarrino/The Star-Ledger

Yes, you are reading correctly it is officially snowing in Sussex County, NJ and the date is October 15, 2009. And, yes, this is HIGHLY unusual. You know, it's amazing but being a life long resident of the greater New York City tri-state area - to see snow (even if it is on tv) this early in the season is a bit of shock. New York City's high temperature was on 40 degrees today... Here's the link about the snow: http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2009/10/flurries_hit_sussex_county_mar.html

As for me, this is a night to skip the gym and head home and make a big bowl of pasta. Oh and if you're curious - yes, I make my sauce from scratch. And, no, you can't have my recipe. It's from my Italian Grandmother so you know it's got to be great and it is... :P

Are we Carrie and Big or what??

2009-10-01T15:09:00.001-07:00

It's been a trying week in every possible way, and, in the middle of it all was my own version of "Big" (referring to the Chris Noth character on Sex and the City). My own version of Mr. Big had a birthday this week, and, of course, being the good friend I am, I tried to do everything right. And, in true "Big" form, I got a dig of sarcasm for my efforts. It wouldn't be so bad, but, I really did try to make everything perfect for him, but, sometimes the best laid plans (no pun intended, we don't do that - anymore) fall to the wayside due to work commitments.

I also hurt another friend because of my work commitments and sometimes I feel like my life is spiraling out of control. And, to my other friend - whom I hurt this week, if you happen to read this - again my apologies. I hope you read your email...

Anyhow, my own Mr Big and I made up and laughed about this week. The truth is his schedule is worse than mine, but, was reminded that I am to circle the weekend of November 14th in red letters. It's a weekend we've been planning since Spring time - my birthday weekend which includes going to the theater and finally getting to see Billy Elliott and dinner is still up in the air, but, 21 is a real possibility at this point. However, when it comes to my own Mr. Big all bets are off. When we were dating it wasn't unusual to have such plans in place only to have them tossed into the wind and we'd be off to Atlantic City or some other destination on nothing more than a whim.

I miss those days when my life wasn't so complicated, no so jammed packed I literally carry around a daily planner and breath a sigh of relief if I have 15 minutes to myself... Speaking of which, I need to wrap this up because yep, you guessed it - I have a work related meeting in about 30 minutes.

Can someone stop the world for a minute? I want to get off!

A summary of Fashion Week: Spring 2010

2009-09-22T05:54:00.000-07:00

It was a long, busy and sometimes overwhelming week as I covered Fashion Week for my editor. Fashion Week was a bit different from years past - swag bags ("goodie bags" with high end merchandise) were pretty much non-existent. However, celebrities were present from Madonna to Courtney Love. And, of course, the stars of the show were the clothing by the various designers.

Overall the Spring 201o collections feature bright colors as well as neutrals (and even some matalliacs) and all have an overall positive feeling. Cut-outs and peak-a-boo features not to mention feathers will be seen in many garments in the Spring. Other trends to watch are: the return to the preppy look with blazers and knee socks; and the return of leisure suits (thankfully not the horrid ones of the past) but rather up-to-date casual clothing; and there is a hint of the 80s in the air. Dress hem-lines are all over the place but overall seem to be coming in at or just below the knee. It's going to be a great Spring!

My verdict? Thumbs up!

Christmas Catalogues

2009-09-21T08:10:00.000-07:00

It's already starting... Christmas Catalogues are beginning to get sent out and if your mailbox is like mine, you'll start seeing an increase in your "snail mail". While some people hate getting holiday catalogues, I actually look forward to them - mainly because I have friends and family who pretty much have everything and coming up with ideas for presents can be time consuming and frustrating!

My favorite catalog of the year is always the Neiman Marcus Christmas Catalog. You never know what you're going to find. A speed boat, a hot air balloon, a BMW - if it's unusual then NM will probably have it in their Christmas catalog. If you want a peak at the 2008 catalog it can be found here: http://www.neimanmarcus.com/store/sitelets/christmasbook/christmasbook.jhtml and I will post when the 2009 catalog is available.

In the meantime, I am still trying to come up with an idea that doesn't involve stuffed animals or clothing for my 4 year old niece. Talk about the girl with everything, this child wants for nothing! And, while I tossed the idea of taking her to Radio City for the Christmas Spectacular around - my brother and sister-in-law pointed out that she probably doesn't have the attention span to enjoy it this year and so my search for a great present continues.

Tomorrow I will wrap up Fashion Week and all the fun things I saw. And, yes, I enjoyed my three day weekend - I earned it!

Test

2009-09-21T06:23:00.001-07:00

Whatever wife lectures the violent baffle.

Michael Kors: Spring 2010

2009-09-17T12:35:00.000-07:00

The Michael Kors collection for Spring 2010 is one of my favorites of this Spring 2010 show. Michael Kors goes for pastels, blacks, and, hems are being shown just below the knee. The show featured cuts out, geometric shapes and angles along with more traditional garments once again proving Michael Kors knows his audience and how to please them.

There is one way to sum up Michael Kors - it's wearable. And this writer is grateful to him for it!

The Last Day of Fashion Week

2009-09-17T05:27:00.000-07:00

It has been a week of celebrities, fashion, parties and sometimes bizarre behavior. The clothes have been a mix of classic elegance to artistic to a few leaving many to wonder what the heck the designer was thinking.

Stay tuned as things wrap up for Fashion Week: Spring 2010 comes to a conclusion.

Narciso Rodriguez or Courtney Love? Which one was on display?

2009-09-16T09:41:00.000-07:00

Can someone please pay attention to Courtney Love so she doesn't have to attend fashion shows to drive attention to herself? Ms. Love sat in the front row fidgeting, pointing, hair twirling, and, overall was a huge distraction to the Narciso Rodriguez show. Not only was it rude and lacking any class, it has people talking and not in a good way.

Getting back to the Narciso Rodriguez Spring 2010 collection (by the way, the show started 30 minutes late), Rodriguez as always, presented a classic collection (sticking to elegance and sophistication for which he is known.) One of the most memorable garments was a beautiful white gown that had a high/low effect (coming to the knee in front and cascading down into a full gown length in back.) Then again, this writer has always been a sucker for the high/low dress.

You can look forward to seeing Narciso Rodriguez on E-Bay in 2010. Yes, really.

Narciso Rodriguez

2009-09-15T16:03:00.000-07:00

I'm on my way to the Narciso Rodriguez collection this evening. I am posting now since it promising to be a long evening. The show is being held in "The Tent", and, I'm sure he'll need the room. It's no secret that First Lady Michelle Obama is a fan (as well as some celebrity power-houses such as Sarah Jessica Parker) and that has helped Rodriguez's popularity, and, hopefully will give his business a much needed boost.

Rodriguez was able to purchase back 50% of his name in October, 2008 when he signed a deal with the Liz Claiborne empire in May, 2007. I think this is a sign that Narciso is indeed on his way back to the top, and, I'm personally hoping that is where he remains. He is one of this writer's personal favorite designers and, I am looking forward to tonight's Spring collection. And with that, this writer is running out the door to the show!

Announcing My Trip of a Lifetime - World Cruise 2011

2009-09-15T06:39:00.000-07:00

Well, it's official I am now booked on the maiden World Cruise aboard Cunard's Queen Elizabeth which sets sail on January 13, 2011 from New York City. I will be reporting live on this sailing which will be followed up with a book about the 2011 World Cruise aboard Queen Elizabeth.

I am currently working with fellow travel writer and travel agent, Jackie Thresten about an on-board Meet and Greet and we are arranging for signed copies of my book about the 2011 Maiden World Cruise on Queen Elizabeth for all who book through Jackie Thresten. For more information about this sailing please visit: http://www.worldcruise2011qe.websiteworks.com/

Now back to fashion week!

Christian Siriano: Spring 2010

2009-09-14T06:50:00.000-07:00

As Fashion Week continues I want to introduce you to someone I met over this weekend. She is truly an inspiration and I urge you to follow her blog: http://howtoattractthem.blogspot.com/ If you've ever felt alone, unwanted or full of self doubt this woman will inspire you along with her true story.

Back to Fashion Week...

Christian Siriano: Spring 2010

If you are a Project Runway fan this man needs no introduction. Christian Siriano's collection was a bit of everything but, the most notable statement of the show...THE SHOES! The outrageous spiky 6 inch heals had models walking (or was it shaking from instability) down the run way. One model actually gave up and took them off during the final walk. These shoes cannot be meant for real people, can they?? And for the Payless discount shoe store market? I'd think again Christian!

Couture Fashion Week Ball at the Waldorf Astoria September 12 2009

2009-09-13T13:48:00.000-07:00

Fashion week continues to be an amazing blur of fashion, parties, fun, oh and work (wink). Last night was the Couture Fashion Week Ball dubbed the "Red Carpet" at the Waldorf Astoria in Manhattan. The black-tie event was kicked off by a runaway show followed by a wonderful dinner and entertainment.

Andres Aquino continues to turn his shows into a true performances and this year has been incredible, and, I say BRAVO to the maestro!

A full report on the entire week's events is forthcoming so keep checking back. In them meantime, I am off to yet another event.

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2009-09-11T16:27:00.000-07:00

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Things to do in Fall 2009 in NYC

2009-09-11T15:42:00.000-07:00

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Oh yes, I am off to another event this evening, this is merely a pit stop!

A new sponsor for this blog AND Fashion Week updates

2009-09-11T05:44:00.000-07:00

What a way to end a great week! This blog is now being sponsored by Uprinting.com and I couldn't be more thrilled! Thank you Uprinting for approaching me, I will continue to work hard to make this blog better and better! Please visit and sponsor Uprinting.com

Fashion Week has kicked off with huge success. As part of Fashion Week last night (Thursday, September 10) stores, celebrities and designers sponsored "Fashion's Night Out". I attended the event at Saks Fifth Avenue and was graced with the presence of Carolina Herrera, Chris Benz and Elie Tahari who also attended the event along with Vogue’s Editor In Chief, Anna Wintour and Justin Timberlake. Fashion week continues with shows and parties through September 17, 2009.

Lastly remember today is 9/11 and never let any of us forget the events of that horrible day in 2001.

Fashion Week September 2009 featuring Spring 2010

2009-09-10T06:42:00.000-07:00

Fashion Week September 2009 featuring Spring 2010

Today marks the first day of Fashion Week in NYC. For those unfamiliar with Fashion Week it is the week when designers reveal their spring clothing lines. The schedule is as follows - the shows in Blue Text are being attended by yours truly.

THURSDAY	SEPTEMBER 10, 2009
9 AM	MICHAEL ANGEL Salon
10 AM	BCBGMAXAZRIA Tent
11 AM	DAVIDELFIN Promenade
1 PM	DUCKIE BROWN Salon
2 PM	MARA HOFFMAN / NICHOLAS K / WHITNEY EVE Promenade
3 PM	PORTS 1961 Tent
5 PM	ROSA CHÁ Salon
6-11 PM	FASHION’S NIGHT OUT
7 PM	CESAR GALINDO M2 Ultra Lounge, 530 W 28th Street

FRIDAY	SEPTEMBER 11, 2009
9 AM	CYNTHIA STEFFE Salon
11 AM	YIGAL AZROUËL Promenade
Noon	TWINKLE by WENLAN Salon
2 PM	CHARLOTTE RONSON Promenade
3 PM	MONARCHY COLLECTION Tent
4-6 PM	LEIFSDOTTIR 209 W 38th Street, 7th Floor
6 PM	NICOLE MILLER Salon
7 PM	ARISE: AFRICAN PROMISE COLLECTIVE Promenade
8 PM	ERIN WASSON x RVCA Tent
9 PM	VENEXIANA Salon

SATURDAY	SEPTEMBER 12, 2009
10 AM	LACOSTE Tent
11 AM	GEORGES CHAKRA Promenade
1 PM	ANDY & DEBB Salon
2 PM	ADAM 450 W 15th Street
3 PM	ACADEMY of ART UNIVERSITY Tent
4 PM	CHRISTIAN SIRIANO Promenade
7 PM	CHADO RALPH RUCCI Tent
8 PM	VIVIENNE TAM Promenade

SUNDAY	SEPTEMBER 13, 2009
10 AM	LELA ROSE Salon
11 AM	DEREK LAM Promenade
Noon	TONI MATICEVSKI Altman Building, 135 West 18th Street
1 PM	DKNY 711 Greenwich Street
2 PM	THUY Salon
3 PM	HERVÉ LÉGER by MAX AZRIA Promenade
4 PM	DIANE VON FURSTENBERG Tent
5 PM	REBECCA TAYLOR Salon
5 PM	Y-3 Park Avenue Armory, 643 Park Ave
7 PM	TULEH Promenade
8 PM	CUSTO BARCELONA Tent
9 PM	VASSILIOS KOSTETSOS Salon

MONDAY	SEPTEMBER 14, 2009
9 AM	ZAC POSEN The Altman Building, 135 West 18th Street
10 AM	CAROLINA HERRERA Tent
11 AM	CARLOS MIELE Promenade
Noon	JILL STUART New York Public Library
1 PM	TRACY REESE Salon
2 PM	DONNA KARAN NEW YORK 711 Greenwich Street
4 PM	YEOHLEE 225 W 35th Street, 16th Floor
5 PM	TADASHI SHOJI Salon
6 PM	TONYCOHEN Promenade
7 PM	GOTTEX Tent

TUESDAY	SEPTEMBER 15, 2009
10 AM	BADGLEY MISCHKA Tent
11 AM	BRIAN REYES Promenade
1 PM	PAMELLA ROLAND Salon
2 PM	MAX AZRIA Tent
3 PM	DENNIS BASSO Promenade
6 PM	WILLOW Salon
7 PM	TIBI Promenade
8 PM	NARCISO RODRIGUEZ Tent
9 PM	TONI FRANCESC Salon

WEDNESDAY	SEPTEMBER 16, 2009
9 AM	TORY BURCH Salon
10 AM	MICHAEL KORS Tent
11 AM	NANETTE LEPORE Promenade
2 PM	3.1 PHILLIP LIM Tent
3 PM	MILLY by MICHELLE SMITH Promenade
5 PM	ALEXANDRE HERCHCOVITCH Salon
6 PM	ANNA SUI Tent
6-9 PM	MARIA PINTO Banchet, 74 Gansevoort Street
7 PM	DOO.RI Promenade

THURSDAY	SEPTEMBER 17, 2009
9 AM	RALPH LAUREN Skylight Studio, 275 Hudson Street
10 AM	RALPH LAUREN Skylight Studio, 275 Hudson Street
11 AM	RALPH LAUREN Skylight Studio, 275 Hudson Street
1 PM	ALLUDE Salon
2 PM	ISAAC MIZRAHI Tent
3 PM	TRIAS Promenade
4 PM	CALVIN KLEIN COLLECTION 205 W 39th Street, Ground Floor
5 PM	CALVIN KLEIN COLLECTION 205 W 39th Street, Ground Floor
6 PM	CHOCHENG Salon
7 PM	ARGENTINE DESIGNER COLLECTIONS Promenade
8 PM	TOMMY HILFIGER Tent

SCHEDULE SUBJECT TO CHANGE. SHOWS ARE BY INVITATION ONLY.

Fashion Week September 2010 Begins Thursday the 10th

2009-09-09T12:30:00.000-07:00

Yes, I've been very busy getting ready for Fashion Week, accepting and declining invitations. Making sure my passes are in order, and, it's been a frantic week already. Tomorrow I will report from Fashion Week so stay tuned!

Back from the Long Weekend

2009-09-07T16:04:00.001-07:00

Back from the long weekend and gearing up for fashion week, dates, and a busy fall schedule! Stay tuned, it's going to be an interesting week!

Fashion Week September 2010

2009-09-04T05:46:00.000-07:00

If you're wondering why I'm laying low, I will be involved with Fashion Week which begins September 10, 2009 in New York City. So stay tuned and have a wonderful and safe Labor Day Weekend!

Christmas & New Year's on QM2 in 2010

2009-08-31T06:01:00.001-07:00

In 2010 I will be spending the holidays aboard Cunard Cruise Line's QM2.

Itinerary:

Day	Location	Arrival	Departure
Sunday, December 19, 2010	New York	--	06:00 PM
Monday, December 20, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Tuesday, December 21, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Wednesday, December 22, 2010	Grand Turk	08:00 AM	01:00 PM
Thursday, December 23, 2010	Tortola	09:00 AM	06:00 PM
Friday, December 24, 2010	St Maarten	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Saturday, December 25, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, December 26, 2010	Curacao	09:00 AM	02:00 PM
Monday, December 27, 2010	Grenada	09:00 AM	06:00 PM
Tuesday, December 28, 2010	Barbados	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Wednesday, December 29, 2010	St Lucia	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Thursday, December 30, 2010	St Kitts	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Friday, December 31, 2010	St Thomas	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Saturday, January 1, 2011	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, January 2, 2011	At Sea	--	--
Monday, January 3, 2011	New York	06:30 AM	--

Care to join me? Email for details and pricing as well as travel agent contact information to book. Group amenities and pricing apply.

SWF42email@gmail.com

A Girl's Weekend of Shopping - Good Idea!

2009-08-25T07:55:00.000-07:00

I was reading an article about a Girl's Shopping Weekend this morning in Examiner.com, and, began thinking how long it's been since I've gathered my friends together to enjoy such as weekend. Of course, we always put our unique spin on it like going for afternoon tea at The Plaza or heading to Lucky Cheng's for a some laughs, but, it has me thinking it's a good time to start planning for later this Fall.

I'm actually a bit amazed at the hotel prices, and, how low they are compared to years past. And, yes, regardless that we're all in the NYC area, we still do our shopping weekends right, and, get hotel rooms, it's all part of the experience. But, after checking Expedia.com this morning, I will be making some calls to get things arranged this week...

Take a look at some of the prices I've found (weekend of Friday October 23 through Sunday October 25):

Omni Berkshire for $762.88 for 2 nights in a Deluxe King Room

The Michelangelo Hotel for $746.12 for 2 nights in a Executive King Room

Loew's Regency NYC for $1,032.04 for 2 nights in a Superior King Room

Taking into consideration these are all 4 star or better hotels, these are outstanding rates! Time to call the girls and figure out a shopping weekend before the holidays!

I Want A Do Over

2009-08-20T10:28:00.000-07:00

I wanted to shared this - I wrote an email to a friend - it pretty much sums up how my week is going:

Have you ever had one of those days where you wish you were a kid and you could start it over with a "do-over"? What a night/day I've had... Normally I'm not one to complain, well at least not too much, it has to be something pretty major to get me going or lots of little things that add up to be a bigger pain than just one big thing. (Did you follow that?)

Anyhow, I go to the gym last night and everything was fine. I come home and the apartment is stifling hot. First thing I do is check and make sure the cat is ok. He's warm but otherwise fine. I walk into the living room in socks and the rug is soaking wet - the air conditioner broke. So, after waiting for the super in an unbearable heat (I have an apartment where the window's only open a bit), he tells me he needs a part and can't get the part until the morning. Well there is no way I'm staying there so I get a room at a hotel where they accept pets.

I get to the hotel and my cat (who is a huge chicken to begin with) freaks out and runs under the bed. I figure this normal, he'll come out eventually. So, I wait and I wait and I wait, I fall asleep and get up in the morning. He's still wedged under the bed. I have to check out and get back to the apartment.

So I call the front desk and explain the problem and they send someone up to help me. It took two guys to physically lift the bed while I went under and pulled the little sucker out. Luckily he went right into his carrier. So, I check out and get back to the apartment to let the super in.

As I wait it's getting warmer and warmer since the day is getting brutally hot. FINALLY the super shows up and gets the AC running. After babysitting for a good two hours I figure it's cool enough that the cat is ok and I can head off to work.

I get home and now find out the delightful news that our never, ever broken elevators are undergoing maintenance, and, to use the freight elevator. On any other day this would be simple. Today, someone is moving into the building and the freight elevator is use and in the hold position for a good 20 minutes as they unload it.

Finally make upstairs- what a day

So can I get a "do-over?" :)

Summer Finally Arrived and I'm planning a trip to Russia

2009-08-17T13:27:00.000-07:00

Well summer finally arrived, it's hot here, well into the 80s in NYC but, with the humidity factored in it feels more like 90 or hotter. By week's end it should be much cooler. This is going to be short and sweet entry since I'm planning a cruise for Northern Europe and Russia next July. Here's the itinerary:

Day	Location	Arrival	Departure
Saturday, July 10, 2010	Southampton, England	--	04:45 PM
Sunday, July 11, 2010	Brugges,(zeebrugge),belgium	08:30 AM	03:00 PM
Monday, July 12, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Tuesday, July 13, 2010	Berlin (warnemunde), Germany	09:00 AM	11:59 PM
Wednesday, July 14, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Thursday, July 15, 2010	Stockholm, Sweden	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Friday, July 16, 2010	Helsinki, Finland	10:00 AM	06:00 PM
Saturday, July 17, 2010	St. Petersburg, Russia	07:00 AM	--
Sunday, July 18, 2010	St. Petersburg, Russia	--	06:00 PM
Monday, July 19, 2010	Tallinn, Estonia	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Tuesday, July 20, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Wednesday, July 21, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Thursday, July 22, 2010	Amsterdam, Holland	09:00 AM	11:59 PM
Friday, July 23, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Saturday, July 24, 2010	Southampton, England	05:30 AM	--

For more information about this cruise visit: Celebrity Cruises at http://www.celebrity.com

Life's Curve Balls - Putting Things Into Perspective

2009-08-12T10:31:00.000-07:00

Looks like I'm heading to jolly old England next May for a short trip on Cunard Queen Victori a. It's only a 5 night cruise but, I am very much looking forward to it since it is visiting some of my favorite cities in the world. I'm also looking forward to the pre-cruise stay in London before heading down to Southampton. No, I'm not taking requests for someone to join me, I've already been bombarded with my half joking request to have someone join me for The Nutcracker.

*Sigh*... A friend of mine just returned to England and not for the best of reasons. Her beloved brother died of cancer last night - he was only 45. The worst part is that he couldn't hang on until my friend got home to say good-bye to him - she was mid-flight home when he passed, and, I received the terrible news this morning.

It's times like these when life gets put into prospective a bit. The little annoyances just don't seem so troubling after receiving news like the death of someone too young to die.

So if you find yourself having a rough day, put things into perspective and somehow it probably won't seem so bad. ..

Gentlemen Please Only Respond If...

2009-08-11T15:14:00.000-07:00

Well, I have an email box full of my half joking request to have one of you join me for the Nutcracker in December at Lincoln Center. I appreciate that many of you ladies would like to accompany me, and, while I do agree with the argument that going to ballet is very much a "chick thing", I would much rather the company of a gentleman.

A gentleman is defined as "a man of noble or gentle birth b : a man belonging to the landed gentry c (1) : a man who combines gentle birth or rank with chivalrous qualities (2) : a man whose conduct conforms to a high standard of propriety or correct behavior d (1) : a man of independent means who does not engage in any occupation or profession for gain (2) : a man who does not engage in a menial occupation or in manual labor for gain"

So to the rude, blunt man who thinks me hanging off the back of his Harley is my idea of a good time, thanks but, no thanks. There was much more to his vulgar email which isn't fit for public reading, simply use your imagination for such a person.

To the rather cocky UES doctor who apparently thinks he is God's gift to women, to you I also thanks but, no thanks. While tales of romantic escapes might be enchanting to some, it is only a turn off to me. Anyone who has more than 50 partners in his past and has yet to reach 50 years of age is not for me. I wish you luck in finding your next victim, I mean date.

To the 23 year old. You are absolutely adorable. If I was 22 there is no way I would be able to wait until December. Alas, young man (and I do mean young man) I am not a cougar nor do I want to be one. And so I toss you back into the dating pond.

To the snide guy from the Midwest asking who I think I am or what do I have to offer, my reply is this:

I am well traveled and will continue to be well traveled. Why is this important? To quote Mark Twain "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness." I have been to over 25 countries in the world (including 3 of the 7 continents). I can hold intelligent conversations about many countries and cities around the world.
I am not a fat couch potato. I walk at least 3 miles every day and go to the gym at least 4 times a week. My body is toned.
If you had followed my blog from the start or had bothered to read anything about me, you know I will not reveal my profession. Rest assured I make a very good salary.
My looks might not appeal to everyone, but, I do seem to be appealing to the majority of the population including the professional modeling agency who approached me in my younger years. Oh yes, they were from a very real and legitimate agency; and, yes they approached me, not the other way around.
I can converse on many topics from music to real estate to equine related topics, and, those are to just to mention a few.

And these are just a few of my qualities. I made a promise when I started this blog that I would at least write back once to anyone who wrote to me. I am continuing to keep that promise, however, if you don't hear from me again, you simply couldn't hold my interest.

The invitation to the Nutcracker with me was meant tongue-in-check. In other words, it wasn't meant to be taken seriously. However, apparently more than one of you did take it seriously, and, if someone out there truly thinks he might be a match for me then by all means please email me at SWF42email@gmail.com

Nutcracker Sweet!

2009-08-11T08:36:00.000-07:00

For those interested in attending the Nutcracker at Lincoln Center this year, individual tickets go on sale on September 28th. Group tickets are available now. Here's the link: http://www.nycballet.com/nutcracker/nutcracker.html

Who wants to go with me? Email me at swf42email@gmail.com with photo and why you would be my dream date.

A Room With A View - 2009 NYC Hotels With View Thankgiving

2009-08-10T11:30:00.000-07:00

I'm still a bit under the weather with my cold. By the way I had a great time on Friday, I'm not going as far as saying this guy is the one but, I can certainly see myself going out with him once in a while. As I always say, the good ones aren't all taken!

Anyhow I digress, since I'm still fighting off my third summer cold (a new record for me). I am going to give you a link to a great article about the new Thanksgiving Parade route for 2009. It also contains hotels with views:
http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d10-A-Room-With-A-View--2009-NYC-Hotels-With-Views-Of-The-Thanksgiving-Day-Parade

Other articles for those coming to New York City to visit during Thanksgiving 2009 (by the same writer):

Airline Prices for Thanksgiving Weekend from a variety of samples:
http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d5-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-One--Deals-And-Steals

Broadway shows that are performing Thanksgiving Day or Evening:
http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d6-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-Two--Its-Simply-Magical

Restaurants that are open Thanksgiving Day and NYC Stores Shopping Guide with addresses:
http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d7-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-Three--Restaurants-Shopping-and-Black-Friday

Another weekend, another date - now I have his cold

2009-08-07T07:06:00.000-07:00

In a word: YUCK! I have a cold again. My date who gave me the cold is coming over to cook me dinner and watch a movie tonight. He's sweet especially since he isn't 100% himself. I just hope we don't get into the routine of passing it back and forth to each other.

On another note, out of the blue someone from past called me about returning to my old career. Without giving too much away, I have no desire to return to that life. It was fun in my 20s but, it something I wouldn't remotely consider now. I'll just say it was fashion related - draw your own conclusions.

I sigh realizing the time that has passed by since that job. Failed relationships, deaths of friends and family, and, other marks that time has passed. I never thought I'd be in my 40s and alone but, here I am. To tell you the truth, I'm getting tired of dating. At this age, there is nothing fun or glamorous about it. I'm not saying I want to get married but, I really need to get back into a more solid, long term relationship.

LOL

I literally just got a cute email from someone asking if he could share my cold with me, and, sent me the following:

How to catch a cold

As the calendar pages fall away and autumn creeps toward winter, we slog through the inevitable cold and flu season. You know those first, scratchy-throated signs that a cold has taken hold. And you know you're in for about a week's worth of unshakeable symptoms - a dry, sore throat, stuffed-up nose, and coughing and sneezing fits. Want to make sure to get in on all that fun? Here are some surefire ways to catch a cold:

Become a sneeze guard. Cold viruses get spread around by mucus and saliva flung out of the body by sneezes and coughs. Thus, if you really want to catch a cold, try standing downwind of someone who already has one.
Touch everything and never wash your hands. While most cold germs are airborne, many get passed around on our hands. Thoroughly washing your hands or using hand sanitizers will remove many of the germs, but cold viruses can lurk anywhere hands have touched: door knobs, toilet flushers, telephones, bus or subway poles, and shopping cart handles. The machines at the gym and the buttons on the AT M, too. So touch everything - especially your nose!
Stick your nose out. Temperatures drop and you bundle up in coats, scarves, and gloves, but your nose often gets left out in the cold. One catch-a-cold theory goes that when your nose is cold, you become less resistant to infection.
Walk barefoot in the cold. Your grandma may have warned you about "catching your death of cold" if you dared go out outside with a wet head in wintertime. Well, it seems your grandma may be at least partly right. You see, many of us carry cold viruses around with us all the time, but we just don't always show the symptoms. Researchers at Cardiff University in Wales suggest that when the feet are cold, blood vessels in the nose constrict. This then makes it tough for your nose to fight off the virus and cold symptoms kick into high gear. So it seems like we just "caught" a cold, but it had been there waiting for a chill all the time.
Hang out in the city. Cities are packed full of virus carriers - building ventilation systems, people walking or riding on buses and in cars, children going to and from school, and people crossing paths in hospitals, malls, and any number of other public gathering places.
Stress out. Want a cold? Worry! Get anxious! It's thought that tension can make you less resistant to infection.
Stop aging. With age comes wisdom, and this is true with your immune system, too. With every cold you battle, your immune system creates more and more antibodies and becomes smarter at handling new viruses that come along.
Be human. No wonder it's called the common cold: Over two hundred different viruses float around and infect us humans every year, causing those familiar, unpleasant symptoms. Adults suffer an average of 2 to 5 colds each year, while kids experience 7 to 10 sniffle-and-sneeze episodes.

In all seriousness, it is tough to fend off all of the viruses that create cold symptoms. But you can lower your risk by turning all of those tips on their head - well, except for those last two!

Cover your mouth when you sneeze and cough. Keep germs off of your hands by coughing and sneezing into the bend of your elbow. And, of course, stay out of the line of fire of other people's germs.
As much as you can, refrain from touching your nose, eyes, or mouth. Wash your hands with soap and water often - it's the best way to remove germs you've picked up from touching things around you. Hand sanitizers will tide you over until you can get to a sink.
Learn to cope with stress in your life.
Bundle up when you head out into the cold, and don't forget your poor vulnerable nose!
Try to steer clear of crowded places during the high contagious season. Stay home from work or school if you're sick to prevent spreading the cold you've "successfully" caught.

And then watch this adorable Disney short about catching cold:

Thanks mystery man! Your offer to catch cold just so you can meet me and take me on a date was sweet. And yes, you made me feel better - well not really but, knowing a complete stranger took the time to write to me was great. Thank you! And look for an email back :)

Visiting NYC During Thanksgiving and Yet Another Cold For me

2009-08-06T07:25:00.000-07:00

UGGGHH!!! I woke up with yet another cold!! This is the third one this summer, I guess I'm not taking care of myself like I should. I'll have to start building my immunity system back up or else it's going to be one tough winter. (I average three to four really bad fall/winter colds). So that puts a damper on my date tomorrow night but, the guy who passed it on to me is coming over to cook me dinner and we're going to watch a movie at my place. Isn't that sweet?

I'm working from home today, it's going to rain later and I don't want to get worse than I already am - fever, chills and other usual cold symptoms. Anyhow, I was helping a co-worker plan out Thanksgiving weekend for extended family who are visiting NYC and I stumbled across these two articles: http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d5-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-One--Deals-And-Steals and http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d6-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-Two--Its-Simply-Magical

They give great information and the photo slide shows are wonderful. It's making me get into the holiday spirit already! Although, as you know from past entries I'm already anticipating the holidays this year but, these articles are really putting me in the mood.

It's hard to believe soon the Rockefeller Center and Ice Rinks will open, a nip will be in the air, and, then bam - the department stores will have the Christmas decorations up. I think I mentioned this in a past post but, Hallmark ALREADY have their holiday ornaments out for sale. And, somewhere in between I'll catch my annual Thanksgiving or Christmas cold or sometimes it's both, it happens like clock work.

Well, I better make some tea and try to get rid of THIS cold before worrying about one that I know is coming later in the year. Anyone want a cold? I'm giving one away for free...

Sex and the City 2 , where to go to eat on Friday, and other thoughts

2009-08-05T09:00:00.000-07:00

I just spoke with the guy I went out on the date with over the weekend, he is on the mend but still battling a cold, and, we're going out again this Friday (dinner and a movie), he's letting me pick the restaurant, but, I'm not sure where we should go. I'm reading menupages but, haven't seen anything that really knocks me out yet. We will probably go see The Ugly Truth the movies this summer haven't been overwhelmingly interesting.

Speaking of movies, I cannot believe the turn out they had for the new Sex and the City 2 casting call. It never ceases to amaze me who thinks they are good looking, I mean the egos on some people are just outrageous! Rumor has it that the new movie will be out in 2010 so that's something we fans have something to look forward to in the not so distant future.

Other than that, a pretty mundane Tuesday for me. Fingers crossed I'm not getting sick, I have a terrible headache...

Another weekend, another date - he had a cold, it wasn't great

2009-08-03T09:04:00.000-07:00

Nothing overly exciting to report - Atlantic City didn't happen and instead, I went on a date with a new guy this past weekend, but, it wasn't the best it could have been the poor guy was coming down with a cold. I checked in on him today and, he is absolutely horrible. I'm just hoping I don't get it. I don't know if it is my imagination or not but, it seems like there are lots of summer colds going around this year - more than normal.

As for our date, he planned a really nice one. We started with dinner at the RedEye Grill. In a word, YUM! I had the Crispy Shrimp Maki Roll - excellent and my date had the Cuban Skirt Steak. Dessert is a must at this establishment but, we were just too full to indulge.

After dinner, we proceed to see "Hair" - it wasn't at all stale or dated as someone had told me and it was absolutely spectacular. As when this show first opened, it should be noted this show is not for young children - there is nudity.

After the show we had a horse and carriage ride home. Very romantic but, I could tell my date was miserable the entire time. I kept asking if he wanted to leave but, he insisted that we stay.

While the date went well, it would have been perfect if he didn't have a sore throat and runny nose. I agreed to see again after he is better. I'm not sure if this will develop into anything more than a few dates but, you never know...

A Full Social Calendar Gets Fuller

2009-07-30T07:57:00.000-07:00

As we continue through this summer (and lets face it for those of us in the Northeast, it hasn't been much of a summer), it's hard to believe we're going into August. This year has zipped by with incredible speed and, as the year progresses, as per usual, my social calender continues to get fuller and fuller. It didn't help when I read this article this morning: http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m7d30-Planning-your-2009-Holiday-Trip-to-New-York-City--Ideas-and-Suggestions-for-Sightseeing-and-Hotels which is all about the holidays in NYC and in turn reminded me of all my upcoming events.

Soon I will be doing my yearly mad dash to go shopping for outfits for various holiday occasions, and, accepting invitations to parties and other events that I have not already RSVPed. Slowly but, surely the stores are beginning to get their Fall clothing lines in and, coats are beginning to replace swimsuits in the seasonal departments. I have noticed puffed sleeves seem to be making a come back. A good balance for those of us not build like boys who have curves but, are by no stretch of the imagination overweight or fat. And, no that isn't a dig at anyone overweight, I've been battling the bugle all my life and, it's a daily struggle to maintain my size 8 to size 10 dress size. Believe me, I've ballooned as high as a size 22 and have never been smaller than a 6. However, I digress to my point of why certain mainstream designers refuse to cut their outfits for women who are as flat as ironing boards without a butt or bust to speak of... In a society where the average woman is a size 14, it makes absolutely no sense. I'm sure many of you feel my frustrations...

Well, Im off to the NJ shore for the weekend, Atlantic City to be specific. So until next week, stay cool!

It's ACES - NYC to Atlantic City by Train

2009-07-28T05:50:00.000-07:00

I've often complained that New Jersey should have a train from NYC to Atlantic City. Imagine my surprise when I found out about the ACES train: http://www.acestrain.com/ it just started in February and it is run by AMTRAK, and, I will be experiencing it in about two weeks.

It takes approximately 2.5 hours from NYC to Atlantic City, and, there are only two pick up points. The first is Penn Station in NYC and the second is Penn Station in Newark - and then you are off to AC.

If you've ever been stuck on the Garden State Parkway, you'll understand my excitement over being able to take the train instead of sitting in a line of endless traffic! The only drawback is that the train only runs on Saturday and Sunday. I'm hoping against hope that it turns out to be a huge success and that they start offering daily service. It is a welcome alternative to driving myself or taking the "blue hair express" (Atlantic City Express Buses filled with little old ladies with their hair dyed blue.)

I'll report on the experience when I return.

155 Days Until Christmas

2009-07-23T09:51:00.000-07:00

I don't know why but, I'm particularly fixated on Christmas and the Holidays this year. It's been a long, long, long time since I've actually looked forward to the holidays, so, this is a bit strange for me. The holidays have long been the saddest, most depressing part of the year for me, however, I am accepting my change in attitude and will be ready to welcome the season when it gets here.

It's funny, until a year ago, summer was always my favorite time of year but, for some reason, this year, Autumn and the holidays can't get here fast enough for me. I know I have a fairly busy social calendar this year. That could be part of it but, I doubt it. This is no busier than past years - there is no one special in my life - I have no children. So nothing logical is explaining why this change in heart.

I actually want to buy a Christmas tree and decorate this year. I want to make Christmas cookies. I want my apartment filled with friends and family.

So in the spirit of the holiday, I'd like to offer you all this coupon: http://www.christmastreesny.org/images/coupons.pdf

And you'll be able to see the list of participating farms later in the year here:
http://www.christmastreesny.org/

Spa Appointments

2009-07-22T12:12:00.000-07:00

Like many women I know, given the state of the economy, cutting back on non-essentials like going to a Spa are becoming more and more common place. My job is solid, I didn't get involved with a high risk mortgage, and, I'm doing "ok" financially, but, I still am cutting back on expenses because of the "what if" factor.

Of course, there are certain things I won't give up - like a good hair cut, but, I'm more than willing to forgo the truly unnecessary treatments like massages. I realize that for some people a massage is a medical necessity and I'm not referring to someone who needs it for that reason, I'm just saying for me - it's a non-essential. A facial, well, I'll cut back to special occasion for that one - at $120 plus tax and tip, it's certainly something I can live without, but, then again it is something I can afford to treat myself to once in a while - especially when a special occasion arises and I need to look my very best.

However, I will not give up my yearly birthday treat - when I give myself a full day at the spa - in other words - the works! Sure it's $400 + but heck, I have no kids, no husband, and, I might as well take care of me with my money. And, it's only once a year...

Are September and October the new "June" for Weddings?

2009-07-21T08:20:00.000-07:00

Say June and most people think of warmer weather, the end of the school year, and, of course, weddings. Strangely enough, I did not attend one June wedding this year, and, in turn, my usually quiet (for weddings) September and October are nearly completely booked. One weekend, I literally will be attending a Friday evening, a Saturday, and a Sunday wedding - different parties of course. Luckily, they are all within 100 miles of each other.

People often ask if I mind going to a wedding as a single in her 40s. The answer is no. What most well-meaning friends and strangers don't seem to understand is that I enjoy being single. And, therefore, I do not feel bad or like I've "missed" something never having walked down the aisle myself.

On many levels, I can understand the appeal of a late summer/early autumn wedding. In my younger years, I would have shuttered at the idea - I had always thought if I ever did get married I would select June. However, as I've matured and experienced life - I think autumn is indeed a wise choice. Mother Nature provides a glorious backdrop of color making otherwise routine photos more interesting. The bride has more flexibility in selecting colors for her wedding scheme. And, it also offers the chance to broaden the menu for the reception.

What remains interesting is how the popularity of the months have switched - and in fact, August has now become one of the most popular months. I'm not sure how or why other months are becoming as popular or possibility even more popular than June but, I have an idea that it has to do with being an individual and not following the pack.

Regardless, I wish all the brides and grooms to be the best of luck in their futures. And, I look forward to the respective weddings I will be attending this Fall.

21 Club - Yes there IS a dress code

2009-07-17T07:44:00.000-07:00

Once again the idiots of the world continue to make their way to NYC. I was on http://www.opentable.com making reservations for 21 Club. Having been to this restaurant many, many times I know what to expect and how to dress. I will add this restaurant has never disappointed me.

I noticed the reviews section, and, decided to see what others had to say. Overall, the reviews are positive, and, then I reached this one:

"I was upset with 21 Club because I booked my reservations online, booked 3 broadway shows online, and booked my hotel and flight all online. I was set to see "Wicked" and dine at 21 Club before. My daughter and I were in NYC on a mother-daughter trip, to try to forget that my 34 year old son died in his sleep in March. We planned our whole trip around this one awesome dinner reservation. We were running late, called and moved our time 1 hour ahead, and showered, dressed, and hailed a cab. We arrived at the club and were told we were not admitted because we were underdressed. I was never so insulted in all my life. We looked fine. and when you are seated, no one can tell whether you have on a skirt, or dress shorts. Post DRESS CLOTHES online"

TO THIS I REPLY:

Well DUH! Here's the link to the dress code: http://www.21club.com/web/onyc/hours.jsp

I don't buy this woman's excuse for a minute. She was certainly up for a good enough time to book the trip and go to some shows, therefore, the excuse she was upset about her son's death isn't going to fly with me.

This is just another example of idiots taking over the United States. All this woman had to do was click the "21 Club" link and scroll down to "Hours and Dress Code"

Now exactly what is unclear about this request, taken directly from the 21 website?

Attire/Dress Code

Bar Room, Upstairs at '21', Cocktail Lounge & Wine Cellar: Jeans and sneakers are not permitted. Jackets are necessary for gentlemen with ties preferred at dinner.

I mean come on! If Jackets are necessary for gentleman, on what planet does that mean women in shorts - even if they are dress shorts - would be acceptable? Ok, one exception to the rule MIGHT be Bermuda, however, this is NYC and NOT Bermuda!

And, yes, surprise, surprise, dress codes are enforced.

Had this woman been allowed in, regardless of how she was dressed, I am positive she would have complained about 21 being too snooty or stiff. I've seen this type in action once too often to know what she is all about without ever having met her.

Click here for the review above, as well as other reviews

Back to Work on Wednesday - Finally

2009-07-14T10:14:00.000-07:00

Well solitary confinement is over, I received the ok to return to work tomorrow from my doctor. While I did truly need last week off to recover, I felt well enough to return to work yesterday. So, I am finally returning to work.

Call me strange but I do enjoy my job. I am fortunate not to have a boring job, and, each and every day holds something new so it never gets stale. One day I might be trying to win a new client over for my company, the next I might be talking to a charity for a joint project, and, the next might find me on the phone all day scheduling appointments.

Is this a sign I am ready for a change?

2009-07-13T12:15:00.000-07:00

In an attempt to keep my sanity as I have a few more days rest before returning to work, I decided to tackle my closet, and, sort through some things. I don't know about the rest of you, but, I seem to hang on to things that I know I will never wear again. For example, I have a business suit, clearly from the late 1980s or very early 1990s, it is so grossly out of style, I just had to try it on. I shocked myself - it still fit! But, into the Goodwill pile it went.

I really put my heart and soul into sorting clothes this time, and, my closet is now half empty. This is not a bad thing - it's time for me to update my wardrobe and go shopping. I think I wrote in a much earlier entry that I force myself to give something away when I buy something new, well, now I have a great excuse to go shopping!

I also sorted through draws, found 6 pair of mix matched socks, into the Goodwill pile for them as well. And, I even went as far as my linen closet, and, cleaned that out too.

Is this a sign I'm ready for some type of change in my life? Do I subconsciously know on some level that someone new might be entering my life? Maybe there is a move in my future? Or is it simply a case of out with the old and in with the new? Or is it the dull answer - I'm bored silly?

Regardless, it has me thinking - why do we hang on to certain items? For example, I have a Minnie Mouse watch that I got when I was 5 or 6 years old. There isn't anything particularly great about the watch. It hasn't worked in years. And, I doubt it will ever be a collector's piece - it's pretty cheesy, and, there really isn't any sentimental value associated with it. I keep thinking I should just get rid of it but, yet I can't... The question is why?

Well, enough of that - on to my shoes, and, my day of closet cleansing will be complete!

Couture Fashion Week in NYC

2009-07-12T06:22:00.000-07:00

Well, the doctor wants me to take a few more days off before returning to work. I'm on the mend but, he wants me to gain some strength back before attempting to start my daily grind.

In the meantime, I've had a very nice opportunity to attend Couture Fashion Week the weekend of September 11 - 13. Since it is an invitation that includes VIP seating with the chance to meet the models and designers backstage, I am jumping at the chance. The event is being held at the Waldorf-Astoria. While my invite includes the Couture Fashion Week Ball on Saturday evening, I may pass on the ball. I don't really enjoy that type of event, not the dressing part, but, the social/networking part. I do enough of that during the week, I certainly don't want to do that during the weekend during my down time. And, since I'm not really involved in the fashion world, it would not be something that would help my career. (Not to mention I don't want to look like a beached whale in my size 8 dress next to size 0 - 4 models).

Models never cease to amaze me. I exercise (hard) for at least one hour every day when I am not sick - aerobics, pilates, running. I faithfully keep myself in the 1300 - 1500 calorie range daily. And, while I'm thin - I can't imagine taking myself down to 1000 - 1100 calories and doing twice the exercise daily to have a model's body.

I've always had a lot of respect for models. Oh sure, there are those who think they are brainless and they get paid tons of money for a few minutes work but, of the models I've met personally - I've found very bright, hard working women who don't deserve the sneers and jeers that often come with the job.

But, I digress - I'm looking forward to the event. See you at fashion week!

The Nutcracker - Sweet!

2009-07-11T06:09:00.000-07:00

As I continue to recover from my bout with pneumonia, friends keep creeping out of the woodwork, checking in on me and, asking me to join them in different activities. Last night I was very pleasantly surprised to hear from an old friend whom I haven't seen in two years. He has moved back to the NYC area, and, after chit-chatting for about an hour, we firmed our tentative date for me to join him in December for a performance of The Nutcracker. I adore Lincoln Center and ballet, so, of course, my answer was an immediate yes.

I was a bit stunned when I told a co-worker about the date, and, she wasn't familiar with the The Nutcracker story. I thought it was as common knowledge as the story of Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer. The basic story is that it is Christmas eve, and, a little girl is given a Nutcracker as a present, and, in a dream sequence, toys comes to life. For a full description of the story, I recommend this link: http://www.nycballet.com/nutcracker/read.html (simply click on the book and then click the book each time you are ready to go to the next page. Note that flash is required to view the book)

So this is yet another event I have added to my social calendar. I guess I am rushing the summer a bit, but, I am very anxious to see the dresses that will be available for the Fall, Winter, and, of course, the holidays in 2009. I'm thinking of velvet - it's classic after all, and, it is certainly something I will wear more than once. That isn't to imply I don't already own a velvet dress, truth be told, I own 3 (one in red, one black and one in navy) but, if I can find something that "wows" me, then I will buy it for this occasion.

There is something extremely fun and festive about going to The Nutcracker. Children running about in outfits I am sure they will wear for Christmas Day. Men in suits and tuxedos. Ladies in cocktail dresses, some in full gowns.

We're also discussing where we are going to have dinner that evening. Picholine? The Grand Tier? Arpeggio? Or perhaps something entirely different.

Of course, we will be taking our mandatory photos of the Lincoln Center Christmas tree when we are there. The one shown is from a few years past. While not as famous as it's Rockefeller Center counter part - The Lincoln Center Tree does have some ceremony with it. When the 2009 information becomes available, I will be sure to provide it. If it follows past tradition, it should be on Monday, November 30, 2009, however, as I already stated, I will post the correct information when it becomes available.

With that, I see it is time for me to get ready for my doctor's appointment, and, I will wish you a wonderful Saturday.

Hats one of the top 10 Fall "Must Haves" According Elle

2009-07-10T12:25:00.000-07:00

To the nitwit who didn't like my entry yesterday. If you don't like my opinions, then don't bother reading this blog. If I was looking for "hits" for this site, I'd be showing girls taking off their clothes!!
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Well, week one of my bed-side recover is drawing to a close, I go to the doctor tomorrow to see if I can go to work on Monday. In the meantime, I continue to be bored out of my mind. And so today, I figured I would find out what fashion trends for Fall, 2009 we can expect to see.
Much to my pleasant surprise - HATS! Yes, according to Elle Magazine, we can expect to see hats: http://www.elle.com/Fashion/Fashion-Spotlight/TOP-10-TRENDS-NEW-YORK-FALL-2009/Top-10-Trends-New-York-Fall-20094

I happen to love hats, and, it's a shame they went out of style for so long. It's a fun accessory that nearly anyone can wear and your size or shape does not effect who can wear hats.

Other Fall trends for 2009 we can expect to see include:

Colors: http://www.fashiontrendsetter.com/content/fashion_events/premiere_vision/Premiere-Vision-Color-Trends-AW-09-10.html
Hair to extremes (very short to long): http://www.fashionising.com/trends/blog--Hair-23-1.html
Really, Really High Boots: http://www.fashionising.com/trends/blog--Shoes-25-1.html
Red Lipstick - http://www.fashionising.com/trends/blog--Make-up-24-1.html

And, of course, your own sense of style will be your best guide to setting you apart from everyone else. That's one thing I love about NYC. You see it all - high fashion, low fashion and no fashion!

Well I will the rest to the pros but, just thought I'd share what I found today. I am eagerly waiting to begin Fall clothes shopping, and, preparing for my busy Fall social calendar.

Enjoy your weekend!

Are you as tired of stupid people as I am?

2009-07-09T12:24:00.000-07:00

Well the title of today's entry says it all. My question is "Are you as tired of stupid people as I am?" I mean really and truly - the dumbing down of America continues...

So here I am, stuck in bed fighting off pneumonia. Since I live in NYC one of the great conveniences I have at my disposal is the ability to place an entire order from the grocery store, and, have it delivered. I've done this on other occasions when I was either sick with a bad cold or running very late and simply didn't have time. So I placed my order, and, the delivery man came when I was ready to give him his tip, I realized I didn't have anything smaller than a $50 bill. So I asked him if he was able to make change and he said "I think so". Please note two important factors here: I said delivery man (he was easily into his late 40s or early 50s) and the other important fact here is that the reply was "I think so".

Turns out this man did NOT know how to make change, and, had I been a less honest person, could have robbed this guy blind. This man clearly at least finished high school, possibly even had some college because he was able to hold an intelligent conversation. And, I suspect he was delivering groceries either to supplement another job or it is the best he could do at the moment given the economy.

It is a sad and scary state that a man well into his 40s could not make change. And, he is not a limited case. No longer do cashiers in grocery or department stores need to be able to make change, the machine tells them exactly what is owed and what change should be returned to the customer. Even with that I've had clerks stare at me and even ask me to help them make change.

I'm amazed some people have enough brain power to remember how to breath! We are in deep trouble my friends, stupid people are everywhere these days.

Booked My Cruises for 2010 for July and December

2009-07-08T10:27:00.000-07:00

Well, after discussing things over with family, we are now officially booked and deposited for two very wonderful cruises in 2010. It was a very, very hard decision to make, but, after careful deliberation, you will find me on the following two cruises:

July 2, 2010
9 Night Bermuda and Caribbean Cruise
Caribbean Princess

Day	Location	Arrival	Departure
Friday, July 2, 2010	New York, New York	--	05:00 PM
Saturday, July 3, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, July 4, 2010	Royal Naval Dockyard, Bermuda	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Monday, July 5, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Tuesday, July 6, 2010	San Juan, Puerto Rico	01:00 PM	11:00 PM
Wednesday, July 7, 2010	St. Thomas, U.s. Virgin Islands	07:00 AM	04:00 PM
Thursday, July 8, 2010	Grand Turk, Caicos Islands	01:00 PM	07:00 PM
Friday, July 9, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Saturday, July 10, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, July 11, 2010	New York, New York	07:15 AM	--

And the Christmas cruise may shock some of you. We decided to go with Cunard aboard Queen Mary 2. There were many factors in this decision but ultimately it is the best fit for those in my family who are joining me on this cruise.

December 19, 2010
15 Night Christmas Cruise
Cunard Queen Mary 2

Day	Location	Arrival	Departure
Sunday, December 19, 2010	New York	--	06:00 PM
Monday, December 20, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Tuesday, December 21, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Wednesday, December 22, 2010	Grand Turk	08:00 AM	01:00 PM
Thursday, December 23, 2010	Tortola	09:00 AM	06:00 PM
Friday, December 24, 2010	St Maarten	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Saturday, December 25, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, December 26, 2010	Curacao	09:00 AM	02:00 PM
Monday, December 27, 2010	Grenada	09:00 AM	06:00 PM
Tuesday, December 28, 2010	Barbados	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Wednesday, December 29, 2010	St Lucia	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Thursday, December 30, 2010	St Kitts	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Friday, December 31, 2010	St Thomas	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Saturday, January 1, 2011	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, January 2, 2011	At Sea	--	--
Monday, January 3, 2011	New York	06:30 AM	--

Am I excited? Of course! It's been three years since I've been on a cruise and now I have two really good ones to look forward to enjoying in 2010. The best part? I don't have to fly! It's as simple as driving to Brooklyn to the cruise terminal for both sailings.

And the only repeat on the itineraries is St. Thomas which can easily be rendered by going to St. John instead.

Cabin selection? Well, of course, I am not giving my cabin number out, but, I didn't book the most expensive cabin nor did I book the least expensive cabin, and, I do have a balcony on both sailings.

Booking these trips has been more therapeutic than anything. I haven't given any thought to what's-his-name the cheater, and, somehow, I don't feel as under the weather with my battle with pneumonia as pro I've been researching, planning, and booking.

I've ordered my guide books from Amazon.com, and, should have those in hand tomorrow. Now I just have to figure out how to entertain myself the rest of the day. I HATE soap-operas, can't stomach another minute of CNN or any of the other 24 hour news stations (enough with Michael Jackson already, the man died, let him rest in peace), and, even though I love the Food Network, I can't take another episode of 30 minute meals!!

Time to pop another movie into the DVD player...

Planning ahead - November Birthday with Mr Big

2009-07-08T05:55:00.000-07:00

While my birthday isn't until November, my special friend (my version of Carrie's Mr. Big from Sex and the City) has already informed me that theater tickets are in hand, a special hotel has been reserved, dinner reservations are in place, and, I'm getting a rare treat. He is taking the following day off from work, from his kids (who are hardly children at this point, his eldest is in college), and, I'm getting the best gift from him possible. Quality time.

If you are new to my blog - yes, I have my own real life Mr. Big (on again, off again) relationship and we've been in "friendship mode" for the past two years. And, even though this birthday will not be a romantic one, there is no one I'd rather spend my birthday with than my own Mr. Big. He has been one of the two constants in my life that I can count upon. And, if I am once again involved with someone else by the time my birthday rolls around - he'll just have to deal with it.

I'm certain I will not end up with Mr. Big (as Carrie did in the Sex and the City movie), but, I am certain we will be important parts of each others lives until the day we die.

Perhaps I'm more secure in myself than other women, but, I could never get bent out of shape about platonic male/female relationships. If a man has a woman friend before I enter the picture, why would I view her as competition? After all, if he wanted her, they'd already be dating...

Likewise, I don't like men who get bent out of shape over my platonic male friends for the very same reason. If we were going to date, it would have happened.

And, no I am not the trusting fool. I've been around men who actually had groupies throwing themselves at them. And, while temptation was always in their path, the guys with the groupies always went home to their steady better halves. And, yes, I know this as fact and not speculation on my part. The point being is if the relationship is solid then friends of the opposite sex should not be viewed as a threat.

So, therefore, let it be known my birthday weekend is being spent with my own Mr. Big. I will be at the Waldorf Astoria and have the pleasure of enjoying Billy Elliott. Dinner is yet to be announced but, I wouldn't be surprised if it was 21 or some other similar restaurant. Then on Sunday, I am being treated to brunch at Peacock Alley.

If you are unfamiliar with Sunday brunch at Peacock Alley, it is something everyone should experience at least once in their lifetime. You will no doubt gag at the $95 per person plus tax and tip pricing, but, then again, the buffet is simply incredible.

Oh yes, I know, there are those of you are skeptical and cynical (and very obliviously jealous) about the truthfulness of my blog, however, it is all very real. So to those of you who fall into this category, say what you want but, one special weekend in November as I am enjoying one of the most renowned hotels in the world, having dinner at one of the best restaurant in NYC, and, going to Tony Award winning Broadway show.

What will you be doing in Podunk, USA? Nothing? That's what I thought.

Yes, this blog is real and this is really my life. If you care to expand your horizons and elevate yourself, it could be your life too - you jealous, small minded, twit!

Wow what a response! Looks like Caribbean Princess and Explorer of the Seas!

2009-07-07T12:52:00.000-07:00

Well you guys are overwhelming me, I didn't realize I had this much of a following and, I certainly didn't think anyone would respond either via the poll or via email.

THANK YOU to everyone who has taken the time to vote and who has emailed me with get better soon wishes and asking questions about me and the cruises I am planning. You really touched me!

While I'm keeping the poll open for several more days, right now you guys think I should maximize my vacation and take the 9 night Caribbean Princess cruise in July and the 14 night Christmas cruise on Royal Caribbean Explorer of the Seas. After analyzing everything, you are right, this way I can still carry a couple of days over to 2011, and, have some really wonderful vacations in 2010.

To answer two repeating question in the emails I am receiving... No, I am not a travel agent, and, no, I have no plans to make this a group cruise. While any of you are welcome to book the same sailings, the purpose is for vacation, and, not to play hook up on a cruise ship. So, if you are looking for group rates on these sailing, I would suggest contacting your own travel agent or the cruise lines directly. I am not in any way, shape or form trying to form a group here. I am merely telling my thought process and asked for your input regarding what you would do if you were in my situation.

That aside, thank you to those who are genuinely concerned about my health. Yes, I know pneumonia isn't anything to fool with, and, I promise I am taking my medicine faithfully. I'm in bed as I blog so, I'm certainly not stressing myself out. I am on doctor's orders not to even attempt going to work for at least one full week.

For those inquiring about me personally. Email me, I will not discuss my personal details publicly. If you are sincerely interested in getting to know me, then make the effort to at least email me. And please only email if you're serious. And, yes, I do have a photo but, I will only send it out to those who send their photo first.

To the guy who sent an email of his private area. Nice, but, you would have a much better chance if you had been serious with me from the start instead of acting like a horny teenager. Apology accepted but, I'm just not interested in someone without an ounce of class.

For the person who sent me the link to the article about the elderly man who died on a cruise with Norovirus. Thanks but that could have happened anywhere, it is not limited to cruise ships!

Well, I'm tired, that's all for now. Thanks again to those who took time to vote in my cruise question poll. You're helping me make the right decision with my vacation time!

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Help me decide vacation 2010

2009-07-07T06:14:00.000-07:00

After another restless night (I was coughing and pretty much miserable all night), I started looking into the various cruises I might be taking in 2010. An idea came to me that perhaps I will take two different vacations in 2010 instead of one long vacation.

Here are the two cruises I am thinking about booking in July, 2010.

July 2, 2010 aboard Princess Cruise Line's "Caribbean Princess". This is a 9 night cruise to Bermuda and the Caribbean which sails round trip from NYC. Since the 4th of July falls on Sunday in 2010, that means Monday is the legal holiday (even for the post office and banks). I would be able to take a 9 night vacation and still only use 5 days of vacation time.

Here is the itinerary:

Day	Location	Arrival	Departure
Friday, July 2, 2010	New York, New York	--	05:00 PM
Saturday, July 3, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, July 4, 2010	Royal Naval Dockyard, Bermuda	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Monday, July 5, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Tuesday, July 6, 2010	San Juan, Puerto Rico	01:00 PM	11:00 PM
Wednesday, July 7, 2010	St. Thomas, U.s. Virgin Islands	07:00 AM	04:00 PM
Thursday, July 8, 2010	Grand Turk, Caicos Islands	01:00 PM	07:00 PM
Friday, July 9, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Saturday, July 10, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, July 11, 2010	New York, New York	07:15 AM	--

July 1, 2010 aboard Cunard Cruise Line's "Queen Mary 2". This is a 5 night cruise to New England and Canada also sailing round trip from NYC. Once again, since the 4th of July is Sunday, the 5th is the legal holiday, and, I would only need to take 3 days vacation.

And here is the itinerary for Cunard QM2:

Day	Location	Arrival	Departure
Thursday, July 1, 2010	New York	--	06:00 PM
Friday, July 2, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Saturday, July 3, 2010	Halifax	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Sunday, July 4, 2010	Boston	12:00 PM	11:00 PM
Monday, July 5, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Tuesday, July 6, 2010	New York	07:00 AM	--

Interesting proposition. My family has been tossing around the idea of a Christmas cruise for 2010. Since everyone lives within 150 miles of NYC we are thinking about either taking Queen Mary 2 OR Royal Caribbean's Explorer of the Seas.

Here is the Explorer of the Seas itinerary:

Day	Location	Arrival	Departure
Sunday, December 19, 2010	Cape Liberty, Bayonne, N.j.	--	04:00 PM
Monday, December 20, 2010	Cruising	--	--
Tuesday, December 21, 2010	Cruising	--	--
Wednesday, December 22, 2010	Labadee, Haiti	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Thursday, December 23, 2010	Samana, Dominican Republic	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Friday, December 24, 2010	Charlotte Amalie, St. Thomas	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Saturday, December 25, 2010	Cruising	--	--
Sunday, December 26, 2010	Bridgetown, Barbados	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Monday, December 27, 2010	Roseau, Dominica	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Tuesday, December 28, 2010	St. Johns, Antigua	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Wednesday, December 29, 2010	Philipsburg, St. Maarten	07:00 AM	05:00 PM
Thursday, December 30, 2010	Cruising	--	--
Friday, December 31, 2010	Cruising	--	--
Saturday, January 1, 2011	Cruising	--	--
Sunday, January 2, 2011	Cape Liberty, Bayonne, N.j.	07:00 AM	--

And here is the Queen Mary 2 Itinerary:

Sunday, December 19, 2010	New York	--	06:00 PM
Monday, December 20, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Tuesday, December 21, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Wednesday, December 22, 2010	Grand Turk	08:00 AM	01:00 PM
Thursday, December 23, 2010	Tortola	09:00 AM	06:00 PM
Friday, December 24, 2010	St Maarten	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Saturday, December 25, 2010	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, December 26, 2010	Curacao	09:00 AM	02:00 PM
Monday, December 27, 2010	Grenada	09:00 AM	06:00 PM
Tuesday, December 28, 2010	Barbados	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Wednesday, December 29, 2010	St Lucia	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Thursday, December 30, 2010	St Kitts	08:00 AM	06:00 PM
Friday, December 31, 2010	St Thomas	08:00 AM	05:00 PM
Saturday, January 1, 2011	At Sea	--	--
Sunday, January 2, 2011	At Sea	--	--
Monday, January 3, 2011	New York	06:30 AM	--

I am very fortunate that the company where I work automatically closes for the entire week between Christmas and New Year's so it's like a bonus week of vacation. And, other members of my family who are still in the work force and not retired also have this same great benefit with their respective companies.

Additionally, since Christmas falls on Saturday in 2010, that means my company will use December 24th as the holiday, and, therefore, the Christmas cruise will only cost me 4 vacation days on Royal Caribbean and 5 days on Cunard.

Vacation Carry Over

So, if I take the QM2 sailing in July, I will be able to carry an additional 2 to 3 days vacation into 2011 or no extra vacation days in 2011 if I select Caribbean Princess for the 4th of July in 2010 and QM2 for Christmas.

Confused yet? Help me decide! Vote in the poll (found in the upper right hand column)

On the right hand column you will see that I put up a poll. If you'd like to give your opinion of which you believe is the best vacation combination - based only on the choices I have presented, please take a moment to vote.

The polls is open for the next 10 days but, realistically, I'll probably book by next Monday or so.

So I Have Pneumonia, I'm Using My Time To Plan Vacation 2010

2009-07-06T16:35:00.000-07:00

Well, I did to myself good this time - I went to my doctor after work. In a near panic he sent me for x-rays, I have pneumonia. Gee, and, I just didn't think things could get any better, now I get to stay home (I fought tooth and nail not to be admitted to a hospital) for the next week to two weeks to try to get healthy again.

The jerk had the nerve to send me flowers today. I refused them. I wonder if he realizes that I REALLY don't want anything more to do with him?!

So, what am I doing to entertain myself? Planning my next vacation of course! After thinking long and hard, I decided that next 4th of July I will be on a cruise. But, where? So many choices! Alaska has long been on my "bucket list" - I blame "The Love Boat", ever since I saw that episode of The Love Boat where they went to Alaska I wanted to go too. Then again, there are some really great cruises right out of the greater NYC area. Princess has a good one leaving on July 2, 2010 for 9 nights to Bermuda and the Caribbean. Then again, perhaps I will take my two weeks and take a cruise in Europe.

I have to tell you that it is my deepest hope that I am going with someone special and not just another vacation with my friends or family. Then again, a scenario like "Sleepless in Seattle" could be romantic... Think about it, meet on line (well ok she snail mailed him in the movie) but still the same concept, and, then picking a spot on the ship to finally rendezvous.

Yes guys, we girls, even at my age long for this type of romance. We also realize that most of you don't have a clue how to be romantic and that is why we get all bent out of shape when you just bring us flowers or send us a card for no reason. (I know girls, like that happens without some type of fight between you, right?) But, just imagine, out there, in cyber-space, perhaps there is that one guy who gets it.

The guy who is fit but doesn't live at the gym, who is good looking but isn't all about outward appearance, who has class, manners, oh hell - the whole package - afterall, I am daydreaming here. So why not go for everything? Yes, I want the impossible - are you out there??

I have a year to find out...

Yes I am fine, Yes I am ready to date someone else

2009-07-06T06:56:00.000-07:00

I'm back at work today, I have an appointment with my doctor after work. I'm not feeling well at all but, I want to save the remainder of my sick days for the year since it's only July, and, I get a cold in October like clock-work.

The Spanish cheater has attempted to call no less than 2 dozen times, and, left half a dozen messages that he is sorry, that he simply gave in to the lust of the moment (and here's the best one - that he was longing to make love to me so badly, he gave in to his ex-girlfriend but pretended it was me the whole time.)

I checked my driver's license. Nope. I wan't born yesterday!

I have a lot to do today so this is a short entry. Bottom line - I am emotionally fine. And, yes, I am ready to meet someone new. To the person who emailed to ask if I might be interested in meeting him - send a photo, tell me about you, and, I will do the same. My email address is located on the upper right hand corner.

Yes, that goes for anyone else interested too. Emailing doesn't guarantee a date but it does guarantee a response.

Thanks

Que Sera Sera

2009-07-05T06:16:00.000-07:00

Well, I have been home for one day, and, all I can say is "Que Sera Sera". I still can't cry or be mad or have any other emotion other than whatever will be, will be...

Strange? Perhaps, but, I've suffered deeper heartache than this in my past including having a true love commit suicide. I guess it's just all a matter of perspective. I guess somewhere deep down I knew it wasn't going work out - it's the only thing I can offer as an explanation as to why I'm not balling my eyes out right now.

As far as the guy the "other guy" (remember the one who I just wasn't into before and I let go just before flying off to Europe?) He's back and he still does not get it. I'm still just not into him, I doubt I will ever be into it, and, he continues to pursue me. I don't need this right now, but, still can't be mean or cruel to him.

Ok, I know, I know - I should consider myself extremely fortunate that I have a guy like that after me, especially since there are women out there who can't get a date with anyone. And, I should be grateful that I am lucky in the dating department that getting a date has never been a problem for me. However, it wouldn't be fair to me or the guy chasing me to lead him on and allow him to think he has a chance at a long term relationship with me. The chemistry just isn't there for me. I'm sorry if that sounds cruel and cold to some, but, if it isn't there, it isn't there. It's that simple.

Right now, all I want to do is get rid of this terrible cold. Get back to work and resume a more normal routine. I will continue to date when asked out, and, in the meantime, I will fall back on my friends as per usual in these cases.

At Heathrow Waiting to Fly to the USA

2009-07-03T05:43:00.000-07:00

Well, here I am at Heathrow waiting for my flight home. This is NOT how this vacation was suppose to turn out. And to answer your question, yes, he has called over a dozen times, I didn't talk to him, but, he left messages pouring his heart out what a mistake it was and he wasn't sure why he did it. I'm not buying it.

In my 20s, heck, even in my 30s I would have been devastated by him cheating on me. I probably would have taken him back. However, I'm older, hopefully a bit wiser, and, I simply am not going to put up with this type of nonsense at this point in my life. I've been through far too much, and, I am certain someone better - more mature - is out there for me.

The only thing that has me really upset is my cold which is absolutely horrible. I thought about staying in London a few extra days to rest up, but, I'll feel better being in my own house, in my own bed.

I probably won't be posting tomorrow so I will wish those of you following this blog in the United States a Happy 4th of July. As for those in other countries, have a wonderful weekend. I'm off to get some soup or tea or something before boarding for my flight home starts.

PS - One bit of good news. He caught my cold! And, I hope he is feeling miserable complete with all the symptoms I've been suffering while he was out cheating on me!

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He is a cheat, I'm heading home and I still have a cold

2009-07-02T05:46:00.000-07:00

I didn't think I would be blogging today, but, I'm actually writing from Barcelona Airport, waiting for a flight back to the States. While I was miserable for the past two days with one of the worst colds I've had in a while, guess who was out on dates with his ex-girlfriend? Oh yes, once again I have proven when it seems to good to be true, then it probably is too good to be true. So, I'm heading to London, and, getting a flight out in the morning.

Of course, I got that standard "it didn't mean anything" line, but, that's a little hard to believe when I walked in on them in a heavy lip lock and unclothed. Want to hear the dumbest thing of all? I don't know if it's because I'm doped up on cold medicine or what, but, I haven't cried, I didn't get mad, I'm just sort of - I don't know, perhaps, numb? Either that or deep down I just don't care, however, I don't think that was the case at all, I was truly falling in love with him.

I'm more upset that I'm flying again with a bad, bad cold which is now making it's way down to my chest which isn't good since I am prone to pneumonia when I get chest colds. So, I am going to go to London, get some more cold medicine, get dinner and get to sleep. Get on a plane tomorrow morning, go to my doctor to get something to knock this cold out of me. Probably cry at that point, and, once again begin my search for Mr. Maybe.

Any cute SINGLE guys in the NYC area who aren't cheats want to go out next weekend?

In Spain, with a cold and it's after midnight

2009-07-01T15:10:00.000-07:00

I can't sleep. It's after midnight. I'm shivering (badly), I'm stuffed up, and, I am miserable. I insisted my love sleep in another room so he wouldn't get this cold, he's just getting over his but, I am miserable. Beyond miserable. Anyone want to keep me warm tonight so I don't reinfect my love?

No post

2009-07-01T10:40:00.000-07:00

I'm really sick so I might not post for a day or two. Very, very bad cold this time - you name the symptom - I have it, worse than the one that I started out with. Not too close I'm contagious.

2009-06-30T05:13:00.000-07:00

I dot anoder bad dold (translation: I have another bad cold). However that isn't going to keep me down, I'm in Spain, I have a great love, and, I adore his family and apparently they adore me. They are already asking us "when is the wedding?" I'm not going to attempt to write that in Spanish. I am amazed how much Spanish I've retained, I don't use it as often as I would like, but, I guess it's like riding a bike, you never really forget.

Now if I can just rid of this stupid cold once and for all, I'll be very happy. Tomorrow we head off to Majorca Island, Spain. If you are unfamiliar with Majorca, it is an island located off the coast of Spain. It's very beautiful.

Well a nap for now, tapas later, and, depending on how everyone is feeling, we might head out on the family boat for a bit. It's been a wonderful vacation, I just wish I could have enjoyed it without a cold, make that two colds.

In Spain and Catching Another Cold...

2009-06-29T12:59:00.000-07:00

Well, here I am in beautiful, warm, sunny Spain - Barcelona to be exact. And, I have met my love's family who have been welcoming, loving, and very wonderful in every sense. I feel like I've known them my whole life even though we have just met.

Unfortunately, I picked up another cold in Paris or the one I had decided it wanted to come back for another visit. The only consolation I have is my love's entire family have colds too. So, instead of enjoying this vacation, I'm spending most of my time in bed, and, not in a good way. We went to the beach, a bit cool to swim but, I'm trying to sweat the cold out. It's not working. Someone once told me that it isn't true love unless you get sick. That statement never made sense to me, it still doesn't, but, if going through another cold means this one is going to stick around, then bring it on!

Well, I am gathering my stuff head, runny nosed self together, since it's time to go out to dinner. Yes, I realize it's 10pm in Spain but that's just the point, I AM IN SPAIN! This is a very normal time to go out to dinner.

One thing for sure, the Europeans live much better than we do in America. They are not lazy, get as much done during the day as we do, but, yet they still know how to make time for love, family, and, recreation. I could live here easily... Yes, really