Saturday, October 31, 2009

Happy Halloween

Well this weekend turned out a bit differently than I expected, I'm sitting in the Bryant Park Hotel right now waiting for a friend to arrive from out of town. This is an old friend whom I've traveled all around the world with from the pink sand beaches of Bermuda to "Old Town" Dubrovnik in Croatia. We're going to do a few fun things this evening including the Halloween Parade in the Village - provided the rain holds off and right now that doesn't look too promising. So I hopped online to see what movies are playing but kind of slim pickings...maybe Amelia but we shall see. Sometime the best thing to do is just wing it - something tells me we'll end up just going to dinner and talking until we're blue in the face. It's been over 3 years since we last saw each other.

And my friend just appeared so I am signing off and going to great him.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Oppps - haven't posted in a while

There was personal drama, work - more work - the end of a friendship - more work. So that's where I've been the past few weeks. Fall is a hard time of year for me, very depressing. I find it sad to see the end of yet another year coming to a close, and, it does make me depressed. I often find myself thinking about the things I didn't get accomplished and the goals I failed to meet. I also think of lost friends and family who will no longer be celebrating the holidays with me. So, instead of allowing myself to wallow in the sadness for any length of time, I keep myself busy - super busy during the Fall so that's why I haven't had time to blog.

Fact of the matter is that it's 6:30 and I'm still at work and have been here since 7:30 am. And, I've been doing this for 6 days a week for the past few weeks and, it will not let up until after New Year's Day.

On the bright side of things, I've made a great new friend, and, if he's reading this - you know who you are and I look forward to cruising with you this summer (wink). And, addition to the cruise with my friend I have several other great trips lined up for 2010 including one I will reveal later in the year. I'm holding off because once it goes public I am sure it will book up fast and I am waiting for answers from family and friends before announcing what it is that is planned. All I will say is that involved travel, a well known chef and tv personality, and, it will be taking place in Europe.

Intrigued? Stay tuned!

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Snow in October in NJ? Guess it's the season...

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Yes, you are reading correctly it is officially snowing in Sussex County, NJ and the date is October 15, 2009. And, yes, this is HIGHLY unusual. You know, it's amazing but being a life long resident of the greater New York City tri-state area - to see snow (even if it is on tv) this early in the season is a bit of shock. New York City's high temperature was on 40 degrees today... Here's the link about the snow: http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2009/10/flurries_hit_sussex_county_mar.html

As for me, this is a night to skip the gym and head home and make a big bowl of pasta. Oh and if you're curious - yes, I make my sauce from scratch. And, no, you can't have my recipe. It's from my Italian Grandmother so you know it's got to be great and it is... :P

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Are we Carrie and Big or what??

It's been a trying week in every possible way, and, in the middle of it all was my own version of "Big" (referring to the Chris Noth character on Sex and the City). My own version of Mr. Big had a birthday this week, and, of course, being the good friend I am, I tried to do everything right. And, in true "Big" form, I got a dig of sarcasm for my efforts. It wouldn't be so bad, but, I really did try to make everything perfect for him, but, sometimes the best laid plans (no pun intended, we don't do that - anymore) fall to the wayside due to work commitments.

I also hurt another friend because of my work commitments and sometimes I feel like my life is spiraling out of control. And, to my other friend - whom I hurt this week, if you happen to read this - again my apologies. I hope you read your email...

Anyhow, my own Mr Big and I made up and laughed about this week. The truth is his schedule is worse than mine, but, was reminded that I am to circle the weekend of November 14th in red letters. It's a weekend we've been planning since Spring time - my birthday weekend which includes going to the theater and finally getting to see Billy Elliott and dinner is still up in the air, but, 21 is a real possibility at this point. However, when it comes to my own Mr. Big all bets are off. When we were dating it wasn't unusual to have such plans in place only to have them tossed into the wind and we'd be off to Atlantic City or some other destination on nothing more than a whim.

I miss those days when my life wasn't so complicated, no so jammed packed I literally carry around a daily planner and breath a sigh of relief if I have 15 minutes to myself... Speaking of which, I need to wrap this up because yep, you guessed it - I have a work related meeting in about 30 minutes.

Can someone stop the world for a minute? I want to get off!

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

A summary of Fashion Week: Spring 2010

It was a long, busy and sometimes overwhelming week as I covered Fashion Week for my editor. Fashion Week was a bit different from years past - swag bags ("goodie bags" with high end merchandise) were pretty much non-existent. However, celebrities were present from Madonna to Courtney Love. And, of course, the stars of the show were the clothing by the various designers.

Overall the Spring 201o collections feature bright colors as well as neutrals (and even some matalliacs) and all have an overall positive feeling. Cut-outs and peak-a-boo features not to mention feathers will be seen in many garments in the Spring. Other trends to watch are: the return to the preppy look with blazers and knee socks; and the return of leisure suits (thankfully not the horrid ones of the past) but rather up-to-date casual clothing; and there is a hint of the 80s in the air. Dress hem-lines are all over the place but overall seem to be coming in at or just below the knee. It's going to be a great Spring!

My verdict? Thumbs up!

Monday, September 21, 2009

Christmas Catalogues

It's already starting... Christmas Catalogues are beginning to get sent out and if your mailbox is like mine, you'll start seeing an increase in your "snail mail". While some people hate getting holiday catalogues, I actually look forward to them - mainly because I have friends and family who pretty much have everything and coming up with ideas for presents can be time consuming and frustrating!

My favorite catalog of the year is always the Neiman Marcus Christmas Catalog. You never know what you're going to find. A speed boat, a hot air balloon, a BMW - if it's unusual then NM will probably have it in their Christmas catalog. If you want a peak at the 2008 catalog it can be found here: http://www.neimanmarcus.com/store/sitelets/christmasbook/christmasbook.jhtml and I will post when the 2009 catalog is available.

In the meantime, I am still trying to come up with an idea that doesn't involve stuffed animals or clothing for my 4 year old niece. Talk about the girl with everything, this child wants for nothing! And, while I tossed the idea of taking her to Radio City for the Christmas Spectacular around - my brother and sister-in-law pointed out that she probably doesn't have the attention span to enjoy it this year and so my search for a great present continues.

Tomorrow I will wrap up Fashion Week and all the fun things I saw. And, yes, I enjoyed my three day weekend - I earned it!

Test

Whatever wife lectures the violent baffle.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Michael Kors: Spring 2010

The Michael Kors collection for Spring 2010 is one of my favorites of this Spring 2010 show. Michael Kors goes for pastels, blacks, and, hems are being shown just below the knee. The show featured cuts out, geometric shapes and angles along with more traditional garments once again proving Michael Kors knows his audience and how to please them.

There is one way to sum up Michael Kors - it's wearable. And this writer is grateful to him for it!

The Last Day of Fashion Week

It has been a week of celebrities, fashion, parties and sometimes bizarre behavior. The clothes have been a mix of classic elegance to artistic to a few leaving many to wonder what the heck the designer was thinking.

Stay tuned as things wrap up for Fashion Week: Spring 2010 comes to a conclusion.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Narciso Rodriguez or Courtney Love? Which one was on display?

Can someone please pay attention to Courtney Love so she doesn't have to attend fashion shows to drive attention to herself? Ms. Love sat in the front row fidgeting, pointing, hair twirling, and, overall was a huge distraction to the Narciso Rodriguez show. Not only was it rude and lacking any class, it has people talking and not in a good way.

Getting back to the Narciso Rodriguez Spring 2010 collection (by the way, the show started 30 minutes late), Rodriguez as always, presented a classic collection (sticking to elegance and sophistication for which he is known.) One of the most memorable garments was a beautiful white gown that had a high/low effect (coming to the knee in front and cascading down into a full gown length in back.) Then again, this writer has always been a sucker for the high/low dress.

You can look forward to seeing Narciso Rodriguez on E-Bay in 2010. Yes, really.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Narciso Rodriguez

I'm on my way to the Narciso Rodriguez collection this evening. I am posting now since it promising to be a long evening. The show is being held in "The Tent", and, I'm sure he'll need the room. It's no secret that First Lady Michelle Obama is a fan (as well as some celebrity power-houses such as Sarah Jessica Parker) and that has helped Rodriguez's popularity, and, hopefully will give his business a much needed boost.

Rodriguez was able to purchase back 50% of his name in October, 2008 when he signed a deal with the Liz Claiborne empire in May, 2007. I think this is a sign that Narciso is indeed on his way back to the top, and, I'm personally hoping that is where he remains. He is one of this writer's personal favorite designers and, I am looking forward to tonight's Spring collection. And with that, this writer is running out the door to the show!

Announcing My Trip of a Lifetime - World Cruise 2011

Well, it's official I am now booked on the maiden World Cruise aboard Cunard's Queen Elizabeth which sets sail on January 13, 2011 from New York City. I will be reporting live on this sailing which will be followed up with a book about the 2011 World Cruise aboard Queen Elizabeth.

I am currently working with fellow travel writer and travel agent, Jackie Thresten about an on-board Meet and Greet and we are arranging for signed copies of my book about the 2011 Maiden World Cruise on Queen Elizabeth for all who book through Jackie Thresten. For more information about this sailing please visit: http://www.worldcruise2011qe.websiteworks.com/

Now back to fashion week!

Monday, September 14, 2009

Christian Siriano: Spring 2010

As Fashion Week continues I want to introduce you to someone I met over this weekend. She is truly an inspiration and I urge you to follow her blog: http://howtoattractthem.blogspot.com/ If you've ever felt alone, unwanted or full of self doubt this woman will inspire you along with her true story.

Back to Fashion Week...

Christian Siriano: Spring 2010

If you are a Project Runway fan this man needs no introduction. Christian Siriano's collection was a bit of everything but, the most notable statement of the show...THE SHOES! The outrageous spiky 6 inch heals had models walking (or was it shaking from instability) down the run way. One model actually gave up and took them off during the final walk. These shoes cannot be meant for real people, can they?? And for the Payless discount shoe store market? I'd think again Christian!

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Couture Fashion Week Ball at the Waldorf Astoria September 12 2009

Fashion week continues to be an amazing blur of fashion, parties, fun, oh and work (wink). Last night was the Couture Fashion Week Ball dubbed the "Red Carpet" at the Waldorf Astoria in Manhattan. The black-tie event was kicked off by a runaway show followed by a wonderful dinner and entertainment.

Andres Aquino continues to turn his shows into a true performances and this year has been incredible, and, I say BRAVO to the maestro!

A full report on the entire week's events is forthcoming so keep checking back. In them meantime, I am off to yet another event.

Friday, September 11, 2009

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Oh yes, I am off to another event this evening, this is merely a pit stop!

A new sponsor for this blog AND Fashion Week updates

What a way to end a great week! This blog is now being sponsored by Uprinting.com and I couldn't be more thrilled! Thank you Uprinting for approaching me, I will continue to work hard to make this blog better and better! Please visit and sponsor Uprinting.com

Fashion Week has kicked off with huge success. As part of Fashion Week last night (Thursday, September 10) stores, celebrities and designers sponsored "Fashion's Night Out". I attended the event at Saks Fifth Avenue and was graced with the presence of Carolina Herrera, Chris Benz and Elie Tahari who also attended the event along with Vogue’s Editor In Chief, Anna Wintour and Justin Timberlake. Fashion week continues with shows and parties through September 17, 2009.

Lastly remember today is 9/11 and never let any of us forget the events of that horrible day in 2001.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Fashion Week September 2009 featuring Spring 2010

Fashion Week September 2009 featuring Spring 2010

Today marks the first day of Fashion Week in NYC. For those unfamiliar with Fashion Week it is the week when designers reveal their spring clothing lines. The schedule is as follows - the shows in Blue Text are being attended by yours truly.

THURSDAY SEPTEMBER 10, 2009
9 AM MICHAEL ANGEL
Salon
10 AM BCBGMAXAZRIA
Tent
11 AM DAVIDELFIN
Promenade
1 PM DUCKIE BROWN
Salon
2 PM MARA HOFFMAN / NICHOLAS K / WHITNEY EVE
Promenade
3 PM PORTS 1961
Tent
5 PM ROSA CHÁ
Salon
6-11 PM FASHION’S NIGHT OUT

7 PM CESAR GALINDO
M2 Ultra Lounge, 530 W 28th Street

FRIDAY SEPTEMBER 11, 2009
9 AM CYNTHIA STEFFE
Salon
11 AM YIGAL AZROUËL
Promenade
Noon TWINKLE by WENLAN
Salon
2 PM CHARLOTTE RONSON
Promenade
3 PM MONARCHY COLLECTION
Tent
4-6 PM LEIFSDOTTIR
209 W 38th Street, 7th Floor
6 PM NICOLE MILLER
Salon
7 PM ARISE: AFRICAN PROMISE COLLECTIVE
Promenade
8 PM ERIN WASSON x RVCA
Tent
9 PM VENEXIANA
Salon

SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 12, 2009
10 AM LACOSTE
Tent
11 AM GEORGES CHAKRA
Promenade
1 PM ANDY & DEBB
Salon
2 PM ADAM
450 W 15th Street
3 PM ACADEMY of ART UNIVERSITY
Tent
4 PM CHRISTIAN SIRIANO
Promenade
7 PM CHADO RALPH RUCCI
Tent
8 PM VIVIENNE TAM
Promenade

SUNDAY SEPTEMBER 13, 2009
10 AM LELA ROSE
Salon
11 AM DEREK LAM
Promenade
Noon TONI MATICEVSKI
Altman Building, 135 West 18th Street
1 PM DKNY
711 Greenwich Street
2 PM THUY
Salon
3 PM HERVÉ LÉGER by MAX AZRIA
Promenade
4 PM DIANE VON FURSTENBERG
Tent
5 PM REBECCA TAYLOR
Salon
Y-3
Park Avenue Armory, 643 Park Ave
7 PM TULEH
Promenade
8 PM CUSTO BARCELONA
Tent
9 PM VASSILIOS KOSTETSOS
Salon

MONDAY SEPTEMBER 14, 2009
9 AM ZAC POSEN
The Altman Building, 135 West 18th Street
10 AM CAROLINA HERRERA
Tent
11 AM CARLOS MIELE
Promenade
Noon JILL STUART
New York Public Library
1 PM TRACY REESE
Salon
2 PM DONNA KARAN NEW YORK
711 Greenwich Street
4 PM YEOHLEE
225 W 35th Street, 16th Floor
5 PM TADASHI SHOJI
Salon
6 PM TONYCOHEN
Promenade
7 PM GOTTEX
Tent

TUESDAY SEPTEMBER 15, 2009
10 AM BADGLEY MISCHKA
Tent
11 AM BRIAN REYES
Promenade
1 PM PAMELLA ROLAND
Salon
2 PM MAX AZRIA
Tent
3 PM DENNIS BASSO
Promenade
6 PM WILLOW
Salon
7 PM TIBI
Promenade
8 PM NARCISO RODRIGUEZ
Tent
9 PM TONI FRANCESC
Salon

WEDNESDAY SEPTEMBER 16, 2009
9 AM TORY BURCH
Salon
10 AM MICHAEL KORS
Tent
11 AM NANETTE LEPORE
Promenade
2 PM 3.1 PHILLIP LIM
Tent
3 PM MILLY by MICHELLE SMITH
Promenade
5 PM ALEXANDRE HERCHCOVITCH
Salon
6 PM ANNA SUI
Tent
6-9 PM MARIA PINTO
Banchet, 74 Gansevoort Street
7 PM DOO.RI
Promenade

THURSDAY SEPTEMBER 17, 2009
9 AM RALPH LAUREN
Skylight Studio, 275 Hudson Street
10 AM RALPH LAUREN
Skylight Studio, 275 Hudson Street
11 AM RALPH LAUREN
Skylight Studio, 275 Hudson Street
1 PM ALLUDE
Salon
2 PM ISAAC MIZRAHI
Tent
3 PM TRIAS
Promenade
4 PM CALVIN KLEIN COLLECTION
205 W 39th Street, Ground Floor
5 PM CALVIN KLEIN COLLECTION
205 W 39th Street, Ground Floor
6 PM CHOCHENG
Salon
7 PM ARGENTINE DESIGNER COLLECTIONS
Promenade
8 PM TOMMY HILFIGER
Tent


SCHEDULE SUBJECT TO CHANGE. SHOWS ARE BY INVITATION ONLY.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Fashion Week September 2010 Begins Thursday the 10th

Yes, I've been very busy getting ready for Fashion Week, accepting and declining invitations. Making sure my passes are in order, and, it's been a frantic week already. Tomorrow I will report from Fashion Week so stay tuned!

Monday, September 7, 2009

Back from the Long Weekend

Back from the long weekend and gearing up for fashion week, dates, and a busy fall schedule! Stay tuned, it's going to be an interesting week!

Friday, September 4, 2009

Fashion Week September 2010

If you're wondering why I'm laying low, I will be involved with Fashion Week which begins September 10, 2009 in New York City. So stay tuned and have a wonderful and safe Labor Day Weekend!

Monday, August 31, 2009

Christmas & New Year's on QM2 in 2010

In 2010 I will be spending the holidays aboard Cunard Cruise Line's QM2.

Itinerary:

Day Location Arrival Departure
Sunday, December 19, 2010 New York -- 06:00 PM
Monday, December 20, 2010 At Sea -- --
Tuesday, December 21, 2010 At Sea -- --
Wednesday, December 22, 2010 Grand Turk 08:00 AM 01:00 PM
Thursday, December 23, 2010 Tortola 09:00 AM 06:00 PM
Friday, December 24, 2010 St Maarten 08:00 AM 06:00 PM
Saturday, December 25, 2010 At Sea -- --
Sunday, December 26, 2010 Curacao 09:00 AM 02:00 PM
Monday, December 27, 2010 Grenada 09:00 AM 06:00 PM
Tuesday, December 28, 2010 Barbados 08:00 AM 06:00 PM
Wednesday, December 29, 2010 St Lucia 08:00 AM 06:00 PM
Thursday, December 30, 2010 St Kitts 08:00 AM 06:00 PM
Friday, December 31, 2010 St Thomas 08:00 AM 05:00 PM
Saturday, January 1, 2011 At Sea -- --
Sunday, January 2, 2011 At Sea -- --
Monday, January 3, 2011 New York 06:30 AM --


Care to join me? Email for details and pricing as well as travel agent contact information to book. Group amenities and pricing apply.

SWF42email@gmail.com

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

A Girl's Weekend of Shopping - Good Idea!

I was reading an article about a Girl's Shopping Weekend this morning in Examiner.com, and, began thinking how long it's been since I've gathered my friends together to enjoy such as weekend. Of course, we always put our unique spin on it like going for afternoon tea at The Plaza or heading to Lucky Cheng's for a some laughs, but, it has me thinking it's a good time to start planning for later this Fall.

I'm actually a bit amazed at the hotel prices, and, how low they are compared to years past. And, yes, regardless that we're all in the NYC area, we still do our shopping weekends right, and, get hotel rooms, it's all part of the experience. But, after checking Expedia.com this morning, I will be making some calls to get things arranged this week...

Take a look at some of the prices I've found (weekend of Friday October 23 through Sunday October 25):

Omni Berkshire
for $762.88 for 2 nights in a Deluxe King Room

The Michelangelo Hotel for $746.12 for 2 nights in a Executive King Room

Loew's Regency NYC
for $1,032.04 for 2 nights in a Superior King Room

Taking into consideration these are all 4 star or better hotels, these are outstanding rates! Time to call the girls and figure out a shopping weekend before the holidays!

Thursday, August 20, 2009

I Want A Do Over

I wanted to shared this - I wrote an email to a friend - it pretty much sums up how my week is going:
Have you ever had one of those days where you wish you were a kid and you could start it over with a "do-over"? What a night/day I've had... Normally I'm not one to complain, well at least not too much, it has to be something pretty major to get me going or lots of little things that add up to be a bigger pain than just one big thing. (Did you follow that?)

Anyhow, I go to the gym last night and everything was fine. I come home and the apartment is stifling hot. First thing I do is check and make sure the cat is ok. He's warm but otherwise fine. I walk into the living room in socks and the rug is soaking wet - the air conditioner broke. So, after waiting for the super in an unbearable heat (I have an apartment where the window's only open a bit), he tells me he needs a part and can't get the part until the morning. Well there is no way I'm staying there so I get a room at a hotel where they accept pets.

I get to the hotel and my cat (who is a huge chicken to begin with) freaks out and runs under the bed. I figure this normal, he'll come out eventually. So, I wait and I wait and I wait, I fall asleep and get up in the morning. He's still wedged under the bed. I have to check out and get back to the apartment.

So I call the front desk and explain the problem and they send someone up to help me. It took two guys to physically lift the bed while I went under and pulled the little sucker out. Luckily he went right into his carrier. So, I check out and get back to the apartment to let the super in.

As I wait it's getting warmer and warmer since the day is getting brutally hot. FINALLY the super shows up and gets the AC running. After babysitting for a good two hours I figure it's cool enough that the cat is ok and I can head off to work.

I get home and now find out the delightful news that our never, ever broken elevators are undergoing maintenance, and, to use the freight elevator. On any other day this would be simple. Today, someone is moving into the building and the freight elevator is use and in the hold position for a good 20 minutes as they unload it.

Finally make upstairs- what a day

So can I get a "do-over?" :)

Monday, August 17, 2009

Summer Finally Arrived and I'm planning a trip to Russia

Well summer finally arrived, it's hot here, well into the 80s in NYC but, with the humidity factored in it feels more like 90 or hotter. By week's end it should be much cooler. This is going to be short and sweet entry since I'm planning a cruise for Northern Europe and Russia next July. Here's the itinerary:

Day Location Arrival Departure
Saturday, July 10, 2010 Southampton, England -- 04:45 PM
Sunday, July 11, 2010 Brugges,(zeebrugge),belgium 08:30 AM 03:00 PM
Monday, July 12, 2010 At Sea -- --
Tuesday, July 13, 2010 Berlin (warnemunde), Germany 09:00 AM 11:59 PM
Wednesday, July 14, 2010 At Sea -- --
Thursday, July 15, 2010 Stockholm, Sweden 08:00 AM 05:00 PM
Friday, July 16, 2010 Helsinki, Finland 10:00 AM 06:00 PM
Saturday, July 17, 2010 St. Petersburg, Russia 07:00 AM --
Sunday, July 18, 2010 St. Petersburg, Russia -- 06:00 PM
Monday, July 19, 2010 Tallinn, Estonia 08:00 AM 05:00 PM
Tuesday, July 20, 2010 At Sea -- --
Wednesday, July 21, 2010 At Sea -- --
Thursday, July 22, 2010 Amsterdam, Holland 09:00 AM 11:59 PM
Friday, July 23, 2010 At Sea -- --
Saturday, July 24, 2010 Southampton, England 05:30 AM --

For more information about this cruise visit: Celebrity Cruises at http://www.celebrity.com

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Life's Curve Balls - Putting Things Into Perspective

Looks like I'm heading to jolly old England next May for a short trip on Cunard Queen Victoria. It's only a 5 night cruise but, I am very much looking forward to it since it is visiting some of my favorite cities in the world. I'm also looking forward to the pre-cruise stay in London before heading down to Southampton. No, I'm not taking requests for someone to join me, I've already been bombarded with my half joking request to have someone join me for The Nutcracker.

*Sigh*... A friend of mine just returned to England and not for the best of reasons. Her beloved brother died of cancer last night - he was only 45. The worst part is that he couldn't hang on until my friend got home to say good-bye to him - she was mid-flight home when he passed, and, I received the terrible news this morning.

It's times like these when life gets put into prospective a bit. The little annoyances just don't seem so troubling after receiving news like the death of someone too young to die.

So if you find yourself having a rough day, put things into perspective and somehow it probably won't seem so bad. ..

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Gentlemen Please Only Respond If...

Well, I have an email box full of my half joking request to have one of you join me for the Nutcracker in December at Lincoln Center. I appreciate that many of you ladies would like to accompany me, and, while I do agree with the argument that going to ballet is very much a "chick thing", I would much rather the company of a gentleman.

A gentleman is defined as "a man of noble or gentle birth b : a man belonging to the landed gentry c (1) : a man who combines gentle birth or rank with chivalrous qualities (2) : a man whose conduct conforms to a high standard of propriety or correct behavior d (1) : a man of independent means who does not engage in any occupation or profession for gain (2) : a man who does not engage in a menial occupation or in manual labor for gain"

So to the rude, blunt man who thinks me hanging off the back of his Harley is my idea of a good time, thanks but, no thanks. There was much more to his vulgar email which isn't fit for public reading, simply use your imagination for such a person.

To the rather cocky UES doctor who apparently thinks he is God's gift to women, to you I also thanks but, no thanks. While tales of romantic escapes might be enchanting to some, it is only a turn off to me. Anyone who has more than 50 partners in his past and has yet to reach 50 years of age is not for me. I wish you luck in finding your next victim, I mean date.

To the 23 year old. You are absolutely adorable. If I was 22 there is no way I would be able to wait until December. Alas, young man (and I do mean young man) I am not a cougar nor do I want to be one. And so I toss you back into the dating pond.

To the snide guy from the Midwest asking who I think I am or what do I have to offer, my reply is this:
  1. I am well traveled and will continue to be well traveled. Why is this important? To quote Mark Twain "Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness." I have been to over 25 countries in the world (including 3 of the 7 continents). I can hold intelligent conversations about many countries and cities around the world.
  2. I am not a fat couch potato. I walk at least 3 miles every day and go to the gym at least 4 times a week. My body is toned.
  3. If you had followed my blog from the start or had bothered to read anything about me, you know I will not reveal my profession. Rest assured I make a very good salary.
  4. My looks might not appeal to everyone, but, I do seem to be appealing to the majority of the population including the professional modeling agency who approached me in my younger years. Oh yes, they were from a very real and legitimate agency; and, yes they approached me, not the other way around.
  5. I can converse on many topics from music to real estate to equine related topics, and, those are to just to mention a few.
And these are just a few of my qualities. I made a promise when I started this blog that I would at least write back once to anyone who wrote to me. I am continuing to keep that promise, however, if you don't hear from me again, you simply couldn't hold my interest.

The invitation to the Nutcracker with me was meant tongue-in-check. In other words, it wasn't meant to be taken seriously. However, apparently more than one of you did take it seriously, and, if someone out there truly thinks he might be a match for me then by all means please email me at SWF42email@gmail.com

Nutcracker Sweet!

For those interested in attending the Nutcracker at Lincoln Center this year, individual tickets go on sale on September 28th. Group tickets are available now. Here's the link: http://www.nycballet.com/nutcracker/nutcracker.html

Who wants to go with me? Email me at swf42email@gmail.com with photo and why you would be my dream date.

Monday, August 10, 2009

A Room With A View - 2009 NYC Hotels With View Thankgiving

I'm still a bit under the weather with my cold. By the way I had a great time on Friday, I'm not going as far as saying this guy is the one but, I can certainly see myself going out with him once in a while. As I always say, the good ones aren't all taken!

Anyhow I digress, since I'm still fighting off my third summer cold (a new record for me). I am going to give you a link to a great article about the new Thanksgiving Parade route for 2009. It also contains hotels with views:
http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d10-A-Room-With-A-View--2009-NYC-Hotels-With-Views-Of-The-Thanksgiving-Day-Parade

Other articles for those coming to New York City to visit during Thanksgiving 2009 (by the same writer):

Airline Prices for Thanksgiving Weekend from a variety of samples:
http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d5-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-One--Deals-And-Steals

Broadway shows that are performing Thanksgiving Day or Evening:
http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d6-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-Two--Its-Simply-Magical

Restaurants that are open Thanksgiving Day and NYC Stores Shopping Guide with addresses:
http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d7-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-Three--Restaurants-Shopping-and-Black-Friday

Friday, August 7, 2009

Another weekend, another date - now I have his cold

In a word: YUCK! I have a cold again. My date who gave me the cold is coming over to cook me dinner and watch a movie tonight. He's sweet especially since he isn't 100% himself. I just hope we don't get into the routine of passing it back and forth to each other.

On another note, out of the blue someone from past called me about returning to my old career. Without giving too much away, I have no desire to return to that life. It was fun in my 20s but, it something I wouldn't remotely consider now. I'll just say it was fashion related - draw your own conclusions.

I sigh realizing the time that has passed by since that job. Failed relationships, deaths of friends and family, and, other marks that time has passed. I never thought I'd be in my 40s and alone but, here I am. To tell you the truth, I'm getting tired of dating. At this age, there is nothing fun or glamorous about it. I'm not saying I want to get married but, I really need to get back into a more solid, long term relationship.

LOL

I literally just got a cute email from someone asking if he could share my cold with me, and, sent me the following:

How to catch a cold

As the calendar pages fall away and autumn creeps toward winter, we slog through the inevitable cold and flu season. You know those first, scratchy-throated signs that a cold has taken hold. And you know you're in for about a week's worth of unshakeable symptoms - a dry, sore throat, stuffed-up nose, and coughing and sneezing fits. Want to make sure to get in on all that fun? Here are some surefire ways to catch a cold:

  • Become a sneeze guard. Cold viruses get spread around by mucus and saliva flung out of the body by sneezes and coughs. Thus, if you really want to catch a cold, try standing downwind of someone who already has one.
  • Touch everything and never wash your hands. While most cold germs are airborne, many get passed around on our hands. Thoroughly washing your hands or using hand sanitizers will remove many of the germs, but cold viruses can lurk anywhere hands have touched: door knobs, toilet flushers, telephones, bus or subway poles, and shopping cart handles. The machines at the gym and the buttons on the AT M, too. So touch everything - especially your nose!
  • Stick your nose out. Temperatures drop and you bundle up in coats, scarves, and gloves, but your nose often gets left out in the cold. One catch-a-cold theory goes that when your nose is cold, you become less resistant to infection.
  • Walk barefoot in the cold. Your grandma may have warned you about "catching your death of cold" if you dared go out outside with a wet head in wintertime. Well, it seems your grandma may be at least partly right. You see, many of us carry cold viruses around with us all the time, but we just don't always show the symptoms. Researchers at Cardiff University in Wales suggest that when the feet are cold, blood vessels in the nose constrict. This then makes it tough for your nose to fight off the virus and cold symptoms kick into high gear. So it seems like we just "caught" a cold, but it had been there waiting for a chill all the time.
  • Hang out in the city. Cities are packed full of virus carriers - building ventilation systems, people walking or riding on buses and in cars, children going to and from school, and people crossing paths in hospitals, malls, and any number of other public gathering places.
  • Stress out. Want a cold? Worry! Get anxious! It's thought that tension can make you less resistant to infection.
  • Stop aging. With age comes wisdom, and this is true with your immune system, too. With every cold you battle, your immune system creates more and more antibodies and becomes smarter at handling new viruses that come along.
  • Be human. No wonder it's called the common cold: Over two hundred different viruses float around and infect us humans every year, causing those familiar, unpleasant symptoms. Adults suffer an average of 2 to 5 colds each year, while kids experience 7 to 10 sniffle-and-sneeze episodes.

In all seriousness, it is tough to fend off all of the viruses that create cold symptoms. But you can lower your risk by turning all of those tips on their head - well, except for those last two!

  • Cover your mouth when you sneeze and cough. Keep germs off of your hands by coughing and sneezing into the bend of your elbow. And, of course, stay out of the line of fire of other people's germs.
  • As much as you can, refrain from touching your nose, eyes, or mouth. Wash your hands with soap and water often - it's the best way to remove germs you've picked up from touching things around you. Hand sanitizers will tide you over until you can get to a sink.
  • Learn to cope with stress in your life.
  • Bundle up when you head out into the cold, and don't forget your poor vulnerable nose!
  • Try to steer clear of crowded places during the high contagious season. Stay home from work or school if you're sick to prevent spreading the cold you've "successfully" caught.
And then watch this adorable Disney short about catching cold:



Thanks mystery man! Your offer to catch cold just so you can meet me and take me on a date was sweet. And yes, you made me feel better - well not really but, knowing a complete stranger took the time to write to me was great. Thank you! And look for an email back :)

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Visiting NYC During Thanksgiving and Yet Another Cold For me

UGGGHH!!! I woke up with yet another cold!! This is the third one this summer, I guess I'm not taking care of myself like I should. I'll have to start building my immunity system back up or else it's going to be one tough winter. (I average three to four really bad fall/winter colds). So that puts a damper on my date tomorrow night but, the guy who passed it on to me is coming over to cook me dinner and we're going to watch a movie at my place. Isn't that sweet?

I'm working from home today, it's going to rain later and I don't want to get worse than I already am - fever, chills and other usual cold symptoms. Anyhow, I was helping a co-worker plan out Thanksgiving weekend for extended family who are visiting NYC and I stumbled across these two articles: http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d5-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-One--Deals-And-Steals and http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m8d6-Thanksgiving-Weekend-In-New-York-City-Part-Two--Its-Simply-Magical

They give great information and the photo slide shows are wonderful. It's making me get into the holiday spirit already! Although, as you know from past entries I'm already anticipating the holidays this year but, these articles are really putting me in the mood.

It's hard to believe soon the Rockefeller Center and Ice Rinks will open, a nip will be in the air, and, then bam - the department stores will have the Christmas decorations up. I think I mentioned this in a past post but, Hallmark ALREADY have their holiday ornaments out for sale. And, somewhere in between I'll catch my annual Thanksgiving or Christmas cold or sometimes it's both, it happens like clock work.

Well, I better make some tea and try to get rid of THIS cold before worrying about one that I know is coming later in the year. Anyone want a cold? I'm giving one away for free...

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Sex and the City 2 , where to go to eat on Friday, and other thoughts

I just spoke with the guy I went out on the date with over the weekend, he is on the mend but still battling a cold, and, we're going out again this Friday (dinner and a movie), he's letting me pick the restaurant, but, I'm not sure where we should go. I'm reading menupages but, haven't seen anything that really knocks me out yet. We will probably go see The Ugly Truth the movies this summer haven't been overwhelmingly interesting.

Speaking of movies, I cannot believe the turn out they had for the new Sex and the City 2 casting call. It never ceases to amaze me who thinks they are good looking, I mean the egos on some people are just outrageous! Rumor has it that the new movie will be out in 2010 so that's something we fans have something to look forward to in the not so distant future.

Other than that, a pretty mundane Tuesday for me. Fingers crossed I'm not getting sick, I have a terrible headache...

Monday, August 3, 2009

Another weekend, another date - he had a cold, it wasn't great


Nothing overly exciting to report - Atlantic City didn't happen and instead, I went on a date with a new guy this past weekend, but, it wasn't the best it could have been the poor guy was coming down with a cold. I checked in on him today and, he is absolutely horrible. I'm just hoping I don't get it. I don't know if it is my imagination or not but, it seems like there are lots of summer colds going around this year - more than normal.

As for our date, he planned a really nice one. We started with dinner at the RedEye Grill. In a word, YUM! I had the Crispy Shrimp Maki Roll - excellent and my date had the Cuban Skirt Steak. Dessert is a must at this establishment but, we were just too full to indulge.

After dinner, we proceed to see "Hair" - it wasn't at all stale or dated as someone had told me and it was absolutely spectacular. As when this show first opened, it should be noted this show is not for young children - there is nudity.

After the show we had a horse and carriage ride home. Very romantic but, I could tell my date was miserable the entire time. I kept asking if he wanted to leave but, he insisted that we stay.

While the date went well, it would have been perfect if he didn't have a sore throat and runny nose. I agreed to see again after he is better. I'm not sure if this will develop into anything more than a few dates but, you never know...

Thursday, July 30, 2009

A Full Social Calendar Gets Fuller

As we continue through this summer (and lets face it for those of us in the Northeast, it hasn't been much of a summer), it's hard to believe we're going into August. This year has zipped by with incredible speed and, as the year progresses, as per usual, my social calender continues to get fuller and fuller. It didn't help when I read this article this morning: http://www.examiner.com/x-18067-NY-Budget-Hotel-Travel-Examiner~y2009m7d30-Planning-your-2009-Holiday-Trip-to-New-York-City--Ideas-and-Suggestions-for-Sightseeing-and-Hotels which is all about the holidays in NYC and in turn reminded me of all my upcoming events.

Soon I will be doing my yearly mad dash to go shopping for outfits for various holiday occasions, and, accepting invitations to parties and other events that I have not already RSVPed. Slowly but, surely the stores are beginning to get their Fall clothing lines in and, coats are beginning to replace swimsuits in the seasonal departments. I have noticed puffed sleeves seem to be making a come back. A good balance for those of us not build like boys who have curves but, are by no stretch of the imagination overweight or fat. And, no that isn't a dig at anyone overweight, I've been battling the bugle all my life and, it's a daily struggle to maintain my size 8 to size 10 dress size. Believe me, I've ballooned as high as a size 22 and have never been smaller than a 6. However, I digress to my point of why certain mainstream designers refuse to cut their outfits for women who are as flat as ironing boards without a butt or bust to speak of... In a society where the average woman is a size 14, it makes absolutely no sense. I'm sure many of you feel my frustrations...

Well, Im off to the NJ shore for the weekend, Atlantic City to be specific. So until next week, stay cool!

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

It's ACES - NYC to Atlantic City by Train

I've often complained that New Jersey should have a train from NYC to Atlantic City. Imagine my surprise when I found out about the ACES train: http://www.acestrain.com/ it just started in February and it is run by AMTRAK, and, I will be experiencing it in about two weeks.

It takes approximately 2.5 hours from NYC to Atlantic City, and, there are only two pick up points. The first is Penn Station in NYC and the second is Penn Station in Newark - and then you are off to AC.

If you've ever been stuck on the Garden State Parkway, you'll understand my excitement over being able to take the train instead of sitting in a line of endless traffic! The only drawback is that the train only runs on Saturday and Sunday. I'm hoping against hope that it turns out to be a huge success and that they start offering daily service. It is a welcome alternative to driving myself or taking the "blue hair express" (Atlantic City Express Buses filled with little old ladies with their hair dyed blue.)

I'll report on the experience when I return.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

155 Days Until Christmas

I don't know why but, I'm particularly fixated on Christmas and the Holidays this year. It's been a long, long, long time since I've actually looked forward to the holidays, so, this is a bit strange for me. The holidays have long been the saddest, most depressing part of the year for me, however, I am accepting my change in attitude and will be ready to welcome the season when it gets here.

It's funny, until a year ago, summer was always my favorite time of year but, for some reason, this year, Autumn and the holidays can't get here fast enough for me. I know I have a fairly busy social calendar this year. That could be part of it but, I doubt it. This is no busier than past years - there is no one special in my life - I have no children. So nothing logical is explaining why this change in heart.

I actually want to buy a Christmas tree and decorate this year. I want to make Christmas cookies. I want my apartment filled with friends and family.

So in the spirit of the holiday, I'd like to offer you all this coupon: http://www.christmastreesny.org/images/coupons.pdf

And you'll be able to see the list of participating farms later in the year here:
http://www.christmastreesny.org/

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Spa Appointments

Like many women I know, given the state of the economy, cutting back on non-essentials like going to a Spa are becoming more and more common place. My job is solid, I didn't get involved with a high risk mortgage, and, I'm doing "ok" financially, but, I still am cutting back on expenses because of the "what if" factor.

Of course, there are certain things I won't give up - like a good hair cut, but, I'm more than willing to forgo the truly unnecessary treatments like massages. I realize that for some people a massage is a medical necessity and I'm not referring to someone who needs it for that reason, I'm just saying for me - it's a non-essential. A facial, well, I'll cut back to special occasion for that one - at $120 plus tax and tip, it's certainly something I can live without, but, then again it is something I can afford to treat myself to once in a while - especially when a special occasion arises and I need to look my very best.

However, I will not give up my yearly birthday treat - when I give myself a full day at the spa - in other words - the works! Sure it's $400 + but heck, I have no kids, no husband, and, I might as well take care of me with my money. And, it's only once a year...

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Are September and October the new "June" for Weddings?

Say June and most people think of warmer weather, the end of the school year, and, of course, weddings. Strangely enough, I did not attend one June wedding this year, and, in turn, my usually quiet (for weddings) September and October are nearly completely booked. One weekend, I literally will be attending a Friday evening, a Saturday, and a Sunday wedding - different parties of course. Luckily, they are all within 100 miles of each other.

People often ask if I mind going to a wedding as a single in her 40s. The answer is no. What most well-meaning friends and strangers don't seem to understand is that I enjoy being single. And, therefore, I do not feel bad or like I've "missed" something never having walked down the aisle myself.

On many levels, I can understand the appeal of a late summer/early autumn wedding. In my younger years, I would have shuttered at the idea - I had always thought if I ever did get married I would select June. However, as I've matured and experienced life - I think autumn is indeed a wise choice. Mother Nature provides a glorious backdrop of color making otherwise routine photos more interesting. The bride has more flexibility in selecting colors for her wedding scheme. And, it also offers the chance to broaden the menu for the reception.

What remains interesting is how the popularity of the months have switched - and in fact, August has now become one of the most popular months. I'm not sure how or why other months are becoming as popular or possibility even more popular than June but, I have an idea that it has to do with being an individual and not following the pack.

Regardless, I wish all the brides and grooms to be the best of luck in their futures. And, I look forward to the respective weddings I will be attending this Fall.

Friday, July 17, 2009

21 Club - Yes there IS a dress code

Once again the idiots of the world continue to make their way to NYC. I was on http://www.opentable.com making reservations for 21 Club. Having been to this restaurant many, many times I know what to expect and how to dress. I will add this restaurant has never disappointed me.

I noticed the reviews section, and, decided to see what others had to say. Overall, the reviews are positive, and, then I reached this one:
"I was upset with 21 Club because I booked my reservations online, booked 3 broadway shows online, and booked my hotel and flight all online. I was set to see "Wicked" and dine at 21 Club before. My daughter and I were in NYC on a mother-daughter trip, to try to forget that my 34 year old son died in his sleep in March. We planned our whole trip around this one awesome dinner reservation. We were running late, called and moved our time 1 hour ahead, and showered, dressed, and hailed a cab. We arrived at the club and were told we were not admitted because we were underdressed. I was never so insulted in all my life. We looked fine. and when you are seated, no one can tell whether you have on a skirt, or dress shorts. Post DRESS CLOTHES online"

TO THIS I REPLY:

Well DUH! Here's the link to the dress code: http://www.21club.com/web/onyc/hours.jsp


I don't buy this woman's excuse for a minute. She was certainly up for a good enough time to book the trip and go to some shows, therefore, the excuse she was upset about her son's death isn't going to fly with me.

This is just another example of idiots taking over the United States. All this woman had to do was click the "21 Club" link and scroll down to "Hours and Dress Code"

Now exactly what is unclear about this request, taken directly from the 21 website?
Attire/Dress Code

Bar Room, Upstairs at '21', Cocktail Lounge & Wine Cellar:
Jeans and sneakers are not permitted. Jackets are necessary for gentlemen with ties preferred at dinner.
I mean come on! If Jackets are necessary for gentleman, on what planet does that mean women in shorts - even if they are dress shorts - would be acceptable? Ok, one exception to the rule MIGHT be Bermuda, however, this is NYC and NOT Bermuda!

And, yes, surprise, surprise, dress codes are enforced.

Had this woman been allowed in, regardless of how she was dressed, I am positive she would have complained about 21 being too snooty or stiff. I've seen this type in action once too often to know what she is all about without ever having met her.

Click here for the review above, as well as other reviews

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Back to Work on Wednesday - Finally

Well solitary confinement is over, I received the ok to return to work tomorrow from my doctor. While I did truly need last week off to recover, I felt well enough to return to work yesterday. So, I am finally returning to work.

Call me strange but I do enjoy my job. I am fortunate not to have a boring job, and, each and every day holds something new so it never gets stale. One day I might be trying to win a new client over for my company, the next I might be talking to a charity for a joint project, and, the next might find me on the phone all day scheduling appointments.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Is this a sign I am ready for a change?

In an attempt to keep my sanity as I have a few more days rest before returning to work, I decided to tackle my closet, and, sort through some things. I don't know about the rest of you, but, I seem to hang on to things that I know I will never wear again. For example, I have a business suit, clearly from the late 1980s or very early 1990s, it is so grossly out of style, I just had to try it on. I shocked myself - it still fit! But, into the Goodwill pile it went.

I really put my heart and soul into sorting clothes this time, and, my closet is now half empty. This is not a bad thing - it's time for me to update my wardrobe and go shopping. I think I wrote in a much earlier entry that I force myself to give something away when I buy something new, well, now I have a great excuse to go shopping!

I also sorted through draws, found 6 pair of mix matched socks, into the Goodwill pile for them as well. And, I even went as far as my linen closet, and, cleaned that out too.

Is this a sign I'm ready for some type of change in my life? Do I subconsciously know on some level that someone new might be entering my life? Maybe there is a move in my future? Or is it simply a case of out with the old and in with the new? Or is it the dull answer - I'm bored silly?

Regardless, it has me thinking - why do we hang on to certain items? For example, I have a Minnie Mouse watch that I got when I was 5 or 6 years old. There isn't anything particularly great about the watch. It hasn't worked in years. And, I doubt it will ever be a collector's piece - it's pretty cheesy, and, there really isn't any sentimental value associated with it. I keep thinking I should just get rid of it but, yet I can't... The question is why?

Well, enough of that - on to my shoes, and, my day of closet cleansing will be complete!

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Couture Fashion Week in NYC

Well, the doctor wants me to take a few more days off before returning to work. I'm on the mend but, he wants me to gain some strength back before attempting to start my daily grind.

In the meantime, I've had a very nice opportunity to attend Couture Fashion Week the weekend of September 11 - 13. Since it is an invitation that includes VIP seating with the chance to meet the models and designers backstage, I am jumping at the chance. The event is being held at the Waldorf-Astoria. While my invite includes the Couture Fashion Week Ball on Saturday evening, I may pass on the ball. I don't really enjoy that type of event, not the dressing part, but, the social/networking part. I do enough of that during the week, I certainly don't want to do that during the weekend during my down time. And, since I'm not really involved in the fashion world, it would not be something that would help my career. (Not to mention I don't want to look like a beached whale in my size 8 dress next to size 0 - 4 models).

Models never cease to amaze me. I exercise (hard) for at least one hour every day when I am not sick - aerobics, pilates, running. I faithfully keep myself in the 1300 - 1500 calorie range daily. And, while I'm thin - I can't imagine taking myself down to 1000 - 1100 calories and doing twice the exercise daily to have a model's body.

I've always had a lot of respect for models. Oh sure, there are those who think they are brainless and they get paid tons of money for a few minutes work but, of the models I've met personally - I've found very bright, hard working women who don't deserve the sneers and jeers that often come with the job.

But, I digress - I'm looking forward to the event. See you at fashion week!

Saturday, July 11, 2009

The Nutcracker - Sweet!

As I continue to recover from my bout with pneumonia, friends keep creeping out of the woodwork, checking in on me and, asking me to join them in different activities. Last night I was very pleasantly surprised to hear from an old friend whom I haven't seen in two years. He has moved back to the NYC area, and, after chit-chatting for about an hour, we firmed our tentative date for me to join him in December for a performance of The Nutcracker. I adore Lincoln Center and ballet, so, of course, my answer was an immediate yes.

I was a bit stunned when I told a co-worker about the date, and, she wasn't familiar with the The Nutcracker story. I thought it was as common knowledge as the story of Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer. The basic story is that it is Christmas eve, and, a little girl is given a Nutcracker as a present, and, in a dream sequence, toys comes to life. For a full description of the story, I recommend this link: http://www.nycballet.com/nutcracker/read.html (simply click on the book and then click the book each time you are ready to go to the next page. Note that flash is required to view the book)

So this is yet another event I have added to my social calendar. I guess I am rushing the summer a bit, but, I am very anxious to see the dresses that will be available for the Fall, Winter, and, of course, the holidays in 2009. I'm thinking of velvet - it's classic after all, and, it is certainly something I will wear more than once. That isn't to imply I don't already own a velvet dress, truth be told, I own 3 (one in red, one black and one in navy) but, if I can find something that "wows" me, then I will buy it for this occasion.

There is something extremely fun and festive about going to The Nutcracker. Children running about in outfits I am sure they will wear for Christmas Day. Men in suits and tuxedos. Ladies in cocktail dresses, some in full gowns.

We're also discussing where we are going to have dinner that evening. Picholine? The Grand Tier? Arpeggio? Or perhaps something entirely different.

Of course, we will be taking our mandatory photos of the Lincoln Center Christmas tree when we are there. The one shown is from a few years past. While not as famous as it's Rockefeller Center counter part - The Lincoln Center Tree does have some ceremony with it. When the 2009 information becomes available, I will be sure to provide it. If it follows past tradition, it should be on Monday, November 30, 2009, however, as I already stated, I will post the correct information when it becomes available.

With that, I see it is time for me to get ready for my doctor's appointment, and, I will wish you a wonderful Saturday.